Difficulties are everywhere in life. But these difficulties are an essential ingredient of success, and without it, success can save the bitter sea from being produced.
I remember that when I was in primary school, I didn't do very well in sports. It is not a taste of me to look at the excellent sports scores and compare my grades. I am, from a very young age, very good to win, of course this time I am determined to strengthen physical exercise, to improve the performance of sports. But god is not fair, he caused me to be a tiger snake tail of the person, harm my exercise plan implementation less than one week the name is dead. As a last resort, I had to consult my counselor, my mother.
My mother told me, "perseverance can win, and difficulties are always with us. There is a fine line between successful people and unsuccessful people. My mother also gave me eight words: stick to the end, eliminate the difficulty.
After that, I kept exercising every day and reminded me of my eight words everywhere: persist to the end and eliminate the difficulties. Kungfu is not a man who has a heart, but I was satisfied by the end of the term.
Yes, the difficulties will be with us anytime and anywhere. Remember that time, as an English representative, I failed my English test. Although I to yucai in nearly a year, also can withstand the psychological pressure test is not ideal, but limited to Chinese and maths exam before, the first English exam is not ideal, hard to avoid some unable to bear. How easy is it to overcome this difficulty? ! But think of my mother who encouraged me when I failed in the exam. Persistence is victory; The difficulty is like the spring, you strong it is weak, you weak it is strong... These words, like spring breeze, took away my pressure. I feel much more relaxed, and I imagine that the more difficult it is, the harder it is to overwhelm you. If you are not afraid of difficulties, you will overcome difficulties and difficulties will be overcome by you. I have comfort myself: this time can't, come again next time! Sure enough, I was satisfied with the last exam, and I felt a sense of accomplishment: this difficulty was defeated by my own people!
I've also overcome one difficulty. Let me put it this way.
On this day, I came home from school to see my mother, father not at home, quickly finished homework, homework just finished, mother went home, saw her mother a face tired. I thought to myself: my mother has a lot of housework to do every day, and I have to go to work in the morning and afternoon. I should help her to do it. How hard she should be! Then I said to my mother, "mother, you should go to rest today, and I will do the meal." "Wow, it seems that my son has grown up and knows how to help his parents share housework," she said. So she took out a large bag of almonds from the fridge and made me cook my own favorite sweet Fried almonds.
Stir-fry began, I began to grasp well, but it's my first time cooking, after a while, I was a bit nervous, result the wrong use salt as sugar, vinegar as a sauce, also accidentally put a big the coriander, Fried sugar almonds in a short time I become a black hard ball. I am very sad, sitting on the ground began to SOB, mother heard, out of the bedroom, saw my cooking "achievement", said to me: "the strong man, how can meet dot bagatelle give up so soon? Take a closer look at the recipe and fire it again." I listened to my mother's words, have confidence again, the recipe from the beginning to the end of carefully read again, immediately made a flavor of the sweet roasted almonds, the taste is wonderful! My mom and dad were also full of praise.
The cooking made me understand that with determination and perseverance, whatever you do, you will succeed.
Today, when I came home, I saw others riding my bike, and I wanted a bike, and I walked back home in a dejected manner. When he returned home, see what dad is carried, as I got closer to it, I just know is a bike, I am happy to jump three feet high, hurriedly took dad's clothes, begged dad downstairs, "well, don't pull my clothes." Father hurriedly agreed.
Downstairs, dad helped me ride the bike with the back of the car, but I was laughed at by others, so I said, "dad, let me ride, I don't want to be laughed at." My father let go of it, I thought it would be successful, and who knew it would fall to the ground. My father rushed to pick me up and said to me, "don't swing your bike to the right when you ride a bicycle. Hold it steady and keep your balance. I plucked up my courage, tried again, and failed. Since then, I have been practicing every day, one day, one month... I finally learned to ride a bike, and I was so happy that I couldn't sleep for several nights.
Yes, we will encounter many difficulties in life, but we will never bow to difficulties, because "nothing in the world is difficult if you put your heart into it", I learned to ride a bike is not proof of that?
No matter who you are,you must have some difficulties;no matter where you are,you must face with some problems.That's our life.The most important thing is how to overcome the difficulties in front of us.Therefore,we have to learn and we have to practise ourselves facing with problems.We should not only learn the knowledge but also cultivate the ability to deal with difficulties in school.When we are in the childhood,we learn how to climb to a higher place.That is a kind of basic learning on the ability to solve the problem.With our growth,we should continue learning.
I remembered I had some problems in math homework in one of the summer vacation.I was so worried,because the vacation was coming to its end and I had no way out .I decided to ask my math teacher for help.So,I made up my mind and encouraged myself to call my math teacher.And she was so patient that I understood more besides my homework.See,that's the way and the ability to overcome the difficulty.
In when I was seven years old was very timid, walk carefully, for fear of standing on the ants, but with the passage of time, I have a big courage also gradually rise, saying here, I will recall the thing makes me bold.
Remember, it is an opaque night, my sister and I back from Li County tripterygium wilfordii tower. We rode in the big uncle's car and drove to the tower, and then the car suddenly broke down at the gas station not far from the thunder tower. "What can I do? "My heart cried anxiously, like ants on a hot pot. "Well," said the uncle, "you two go to your grandmother's house with a flashlight. It's not far from your grandmother's house, and it's only a few steps away." "But. "Nothing but, are you going to spend the night at the gas station? Uncle will ask someone to help me fix my car. It will take a while. You should go first." Looking at the front of the black pressure, I can not help but a shiver. Eventually, my sister and I were forced to agree.
Later, after my sister and I took the torch has been moving forward, a crossroad, I suddenly felt like someone watching us, I almost scared to cry, but at this moment, the elder sister to comfort I said ": don't be afraid of, have a sister in!" I listened to my sister, and "courage" suddenly and inexplicably increased. Later, my sister and I took a torch and ran all the way to grandma's house. Alas, what a surprise!
Later, after overcoming difficulties with my sister, I was not afraid of anything any more, because I had my sister's encouragement to me, and it would accompany me through all the ups and downs.
——我克服了弱点作文实用十篇
“金无足赤，人无完人”，每个人或多或少都有缺点，我也不例外。但经过我自己的努力，我终于克服了不注意保护眼睛的缺点。
以前，我每天不出上课写作业就是看书，导致了我的视力急剧下降，直到上课看黑板上的字开始模糊起来，我才开始觉醒起来，视力不好会招惹很多麻烦的呀，于是，我制定了下面三招来克服我这个缺点。
第一招：每天定时做n套眼保健操。虽然每次都做得不亦乐乎，但是乎没有什麽效果，大概是穴位按错了吧。唉，失败了。
第二招：除了做作业和看有关的书外，电视电脑都不去开。过了几天，我觉得课外书在跟我招手，说：“上次那篇科幻小说又有续集了，怎能不先睹为快呢？”电视好像在和我打招呼：“又出了一部动画片，不看就太可惜了。”电脑好像在训斥我：“看看别人的游戏级别都升到那麽高了，你不努力就完了。”最终我还是忍不住，第二套方案还是失败了。
第三招：适当地拟定时间，什麽时候看书，看电视，玩电脑先分划清楚。这套方案实行后，我不但学*成绩提高了，而且看黑板上的字也不再模糊了。终于成功了。这种感觉实在太棒了，尤其是自己成功克服缺点的感觉。
“有志者，事竟成”这句话说得好，只要肯付出努力，就一定能得到成功。我还要再接再厉，克服我身上的其他缺点。
我的同学王强一向胆小，任何体育项目他都不敢参加。他怎么就不像他的名字那样强呢？可他做了一件事，令我对他改变了看法。
一天，我和几个同学一起回家，遇到了王强。我们顺道，也跟王强一起回家一起走，我问他：“为什么上体育课不跟同学们一起玩？”
他居然说：“那些游戏太危险，随时都可能受伤，你们最好也别玩了。”
“知道了。”我们异口同声的说。可心里都在想：懦夫，丢沙包有什么危险的，怪不得同学们都不想和他玩，原来是个胆小鬼。我们又走了一会儿，遇到一个捡破烂的阿姨，我们正想绕道走，却听到一声“妈妈”。我们回头一看，啊，王强的妈妈？我们都惊呆了。王强对我们说：“这是我的妈妈。”又对他妈妈说：“这是我的同学。”我们勉强吐出：“阿姨好。”这三个字。王强的妈妈说：“有空来我家玩啊。”“一定一定。”我们说。说完我们就匆匆的走了。我在回家的路上想：王强是一个多么勇敢的人啊，就连我都不敢交妈妈，他竟然在同学面前叫妈妈。
第二天，我和昨天那几位同学主动找王强玩，因为王强不再是以前的哪个胆小的王强了。在此，我郑重的表扬王强，并且责罚我自己的虚荣心太强。
经过这件事，我明白了：母亲对我们的爱是无法衡量的，我们千万不要为了一个这也二改变了对母亲的看法。
我们在生活中都会遇到这样那样的困难，当困难来临的时候，我们不能害怕也不要逃避。我们要想尽办法解决困难战胜困难。
我的家住在路边，每天放学回家路上，我会看到许多叔叔阿姨，大哥大姐们骑着自行车跑来跑去的，我的心里十分羡慕。我把自己的想法告诉了妈妈，妈妈对我说，可以给你买，但是，你必须学会骑自行车。这有什么难的!我爽快的答应了妈妈。
第二天，妈妈就给我推回来一辆崭新的自行车，车子是天蓝色的非常漂亮，我高兴极了。妈妈带着我来到了我们院子里的一片空地上，开始教我骑自行车。第一次坐在自行车上，双脚离地时心里还有些害怕也有些兴奋。
妈妈说眼睛往前看，两手握住车把，双脚用力蹬，不要怕!妈妈在后面扶着呢!我听了妈妈的话，心里不慌了，慢慢地踩着脚蹬往前走，自行车开始动了起来。一米、二米?正当我高兴的向前冲的时候，突然，前面出现了一个人，我顿时慌了神，手和脚都不知道怎么办了，大脑也短路了……只听妈妈说：快刹车!快刹车!慌乱中我跟本不知道自己是怎么做的，我身子一歪就倒在地上了。
妈妈把我扶起来问我疼不疼，我嘴上说不疼，可是心里只想哭。回头再看看自行车，心里直发怵。妈妈说，没事，谁学自行车都会摔跤的，不要怕，多摔几次就学会了。真的，那一天我摔了好多次，但是，每一次都是妈妈鼓励我继续坚持，终于，我学会了。当我围着院子轻松的骑着自行车转的时候，妈妈的脸上露出了满意的笑容。
这就是我一次战胜困难的经历，这次经历让我认识到做任何事情都有困难，但是，你要勇敢地坚持下去，胜利就会属于你!
一天，妈妈对我说，明天有人来教你二胡，我急得满脸通红，对妈妈说：“你知道我不识音乐中的1、2、3，我怎么学得会呢？不是丢人脸面吗？”妈妈连忙说：“不会的，你只要认识数学中的1、2、3、4、5、6、7就行了。”
第二天，老师来了，她跟我介绍了二胡的各部分名称，教会了我“1”和“5”的指法。结果我把半拍拉成了一拍，把一拍要拉成三拍，拉出的声音就像杀鸡一样难听。妈妈鼓励我说；千日的胡琴百日箫。二胡就是要慢慢来的，你一定会学好的。
每拉一首曲子前，我都要把这首曲子的指法记熟，而且用拍手的方式把节奏掌握好。拉的时候哪句拉得不好听，我就一遍、两遍、三遍……不断地练，直到拉好为止。有一次，我在拉《月亮》的时候，第一句总是拉不好，我拉了一遍又一遍，拉得手都酸了，还是没有拉好，声音乌鸦叫一样。“看来我没有天分，是学不会的了，别浪费时间了。”于是我把琴放到琴盒里，我转念一想：有志者事竟成。又想起宋老师已经拉得那么好了，但她还是每天都在练*，还要每隔两个星期去南京拜师学艺，而自己才拉了一会儿就放弃了，我一定要向她学*，今天不拉好这一句我就不睡觉。于是我更加专心地练了起来，手酸了，我把甩几下，瞌睡了，就运动一会，终于，我把这句拉好了。
困难像弹簧，你强它就弱，你弱他就强，你越怕它，它就越欺负你，你越不怕它，它就躲着你。苦练让我战胜了困难。
回眸小学四年级，那年，懂事听话的我居然不能专心听讲了！
老师在滔滔不绝地讲课，可我的思绪却随着墙角的那只蚂蚁而飘向远方：它在干什么呢？玩耍？找食物？还是迷路了？没错，就是这么一点小小地变化都会使我分神。
窗外的大树会使我想到小鸟的窠巢；天上的云朵会是我想到梦里的天国；就连地上的面包屑也会使我想到小昆虫会不会把它搬走？
就这样，由于没有听老师讲的内容，我的成绩就像溜滑滑梯一样直线下降。我的举动很快引起了老师的注意，随即下达了"召见家长”的“号令”。不行，不能见家长，否则我还能吃得消么？于是乎，第二天我就送去了“家长有事来不了”的消息。这件事就这样不了了之了……
尽管叫家长的事解决了，可成绩始终是我身边的一大隐患。班主任更像一枚定时炸弹，见到她我就像老鼠见了猫似的——躲着走，因为指不定哪天她就要问及我家长的事情。
纸包不住火，抱有侥幸心理的永远不会成功。一个下雨天，妈妈来学校接我，正好与老师遇见了。唉，是福不是祸，是祸躲不过。要打要骂，悉听尊便！
踩着清浅的水洼，帆布鞋被微微泯湿了边。阵阵微风带来刺骨的寒意。一滴雨滴从雨伞的边缘凸显出来，映出一片小小的世界，“吧嗒”一声碎了……
家里的一切还是老样子：软软的拖鞋，香喷喷的饭菜。饭后，我依旧回卧室写作业，妈妈依旧陪在我身旁……
我吐人觉得自己好可笑，面对失败、挫折，我从来没有奋斗过、拼搏过。而是抱有一种自甘堕落的心态。于是那一刻我站起来了，我告诉自己：“我一定行！”
或许，对于这件事，我并没有失败，我只是在人生的道路上遇到了一座高山，无法攀越而已。可是最终，我为自己开辟了一条道路，攀上了这座高峰！
困难像一坐高山，在半途中放弃了你就被他打败了，只有走上终点才能战胜他。困难就像一座迷宫，只有发挥自己的智慧和智慧才能走出它。困难像人生的长跑，我们要跑向终点，走向成功，迎接美好的未来。困难像······
以前的我害怕困难，想逃避它不想真正面对他，遇事就退缩所以我常被同学取笑没有朋友，自从那一次的经历我学会了克服困难。
那一天，我照常背着书包，因为今天要去爬山，所以我穿着一身便服。到学校，老师组织同学上客车，不一会到了目的地，老师领着我们爬上去，过了一会我就气喘嘘嘘，我走不上去了，这座山在我眼里那是真是高不可攀，正当我想放弃的时候，我的同学又在笑话我，同班女生也在背后议论我，此时有一种力量在无形中推动的我，我志气大增，精神一震，我重新站起来向前迈步走，我相信我一定能到达终点。我一步一步的爬着，快到山顶的时候，同学都累的满头大汗，走不下去而我还精神抖擞，这让同学们不由得一惊，我催促同学们走，这让我觉的有成就感，我不会在被同学看不起。同学们休息好就又开始爬了，大家猜着歌走着路到了山顶，我不由得大叫起来:"山顶的风景真美好啊!"我们要学会克服困难，只有克服了困难，才能看到最美的风景，享有美好的明天，让困难消失，让生活美好。
好久没和姐姐在一起玩了。一天中午，姐姐来到我家。太好了！我非常高兴，终于可以和姐姐痛痛快快地玩一阵了。
就在我和姐姐玩得十分开心的时候，突然阳台上传来了“轰”的一声巨响。我和姐姐连忙跑到阳台上看看究 竟 发生了什么事情。
我们一看，吓了一大跳，原来楼上不知哪家的衣服掉下来了。我急忙告诉妈妈，妈妈说：“你和姐姐一起，拿着衣服去楼上一家一家地问，看看是哪家的衣服。”
我和姐姐一听，心里十分害怕，因为我们怀疑是不是小偷进了楼上哪家偷东西，不小心把衣服弄下来了。而妈妈却让我们把衣服送上去，我们都紧张得恨不得找个地缝钻进去。
我把我的想法告诉了妈妈，妈妈说：“不会的，白天不会有小偷的。”在妈妈的鼓励下，我和姐姐终于鼓起勇气，向楼上走去，但我们的心还是“砰砰”直跳。
我提心吊胆的敲了敲一家的门，一位老爷爷开了门。我胆怯地问老爷爷：“爷爷，这衣服是不是您家的？”老爷爷笑眯眯地看了看这件衣服，说：“这正是我家的，不过怎么在你手上呢？”
我把刚才发生的事情告诉了老爷爷，老爷爷说：“哦，原来是这样呀，我还没有发现呢，小朋友，谢谢你们！”
“不用谢，这是我们应该做的。”我和姐姐回答道。
我和姐姐把衣服送给老爷爷后，心里的恐惧感一点都没有了，装的是满满的喜悦……
以前，我觉得最好玩的时候是在晚上。每到晚上我就精神抖擞，格外兴奋。看电视，下象棋，堆积木……一晃就是11点多。在爸爸妈妈的再三催促下，我才怀着几分不满的心情去睡觉。
记得有一回，因为头夭晚上我睡得晚，所以觉睡得特别香甜。一大早，我迷迷糊糊地听见妈妈连声喊我：“李成，起床。”我含含糊糊地应了一声，翻过身又进人了梦乡。不知过了多久，妈妈走进我的卧室，掀开我的被子，高声喊道：“要迟到了，快起床！”听到“迟到”二字，我“刷”的一下从床上弹起来，立即穿好衣服，慌慌张张地洗了脸，刷了牙，顾不上吃饭，背起书包就向学校跑去。离学校还有几百米远，耳边就响起了“丁零零”的上课铃声。我用最快的速度跑到了教室门口，喊了一声“报告”，老师瞅了我一眼，没有让我进教室。我感觉到脸上在发烧，愧疚地低下了头。这时，我才发现我的袜子翻穿着，红领巾没有戴，衣服纽扣错了地方，衣襟一边长一边短的，一副狼狈的样子。看着自己这样的形象展现在全班同学的面前，我的心里难过极了。这时我才后悔投有听老师和爸爸妈妈的话：“要养成早睡早起的好*惯。”
从此以后，我从思想上认识到睡徽觉是一个很大的缺点，就下决心要改掉它。我每天晚上的学*效率很高，并养成了晚上按时睡觉、早上按时起床的良好*惯。一天，两天……我坚持了下来，终于改正了爱睡懒觉的缺点。
明天就是星期天了，晚上，我们全家坐在一起商量明天干什么。我提议去动物园，可是，爸爸却说：“明天他要去野外郊游。”妈妈听了不高兴地说：“去什么野外啊，还是去动物园吧，那里里面有各种各样的动物，还可以给孩子拍几张照片呢。”
结果多数服从少数，爸爸只好答应了。
第二天早上吃完早饭，我和爸爸妈妈骑着车一起去动物园，一路上，我看着路边的景色非常美丽，一片片树叶纷纷落下，像一只只蝴蝶在翩翩起舞。路边的小草随风摇摆，像小鸭子一摇一摆的走路着。我整个人都沉浸在诗情画意中。
“你进不进去啊”我被妈妈的声音惊醒，连忙说：“走吧”。
刚到里面，就有一只体态肥胖的金丝猴，正攀吊在一棵大树上。眨巴着一对机灵的小眼睛向我窥视。
突然，妈妈“啊”地叫了一声，我和爸爸吓了一跳，还以为妈妈什么东西掉了呢。原来妈妈忘了给我拍照。
“前面就有一个拍照的地方，我们去吧”爸爸说道。我们来到那里，只见许多人骑在许多动物身上拍照，因为我喜爱老虎，于是，妈妈让我骑在老虎身上。我听了非常害怕，心想：老虎是食肉动物，万一把我……我不敢再告往下想了。
突然，一个大姐姐不知从哪里来了。它来到老虎身边，骑了上去，然而老虎不像我想像的那么可怕，只是安静地站在哪里，那个大姐姐拍完照，我也想骑上去，可又害怕起来，妈妈好像看透了我的心思，忙说：“孩子别害怕，只好你对老虎好，老虎也不会伤害你的。”
我听了，鼓起勇气骑了上去，真的老虎并没有伤害我，而是友好地走来走去，拍完照片，我们又看了许多动物，有善于奔跑的羚羊，行动敏捷的小熊猫……
看啊，天快要下雨了！不知是谁喊了一声，我先是一愣之后就想起了一件往事，那件事让我在之后的人生路中不知克服了多少困难，让我一步一个脚印的走到现在，成为一个让我自己都有点自豪的人，那我来讲给你听吧：
记得是他二年级的星期六，我座在家里看着电视，窗外炽热的太阳照进屋子使人一点都不想动，可是天突然慢慢暗了下来，突如其来到了雷阵雨打破了那烈日的宁静，当时的我心中一惊才反应过来现在是我自己一个人在家，别看我是个男孩，但是二年级的我特别怕闪电和雷声，于是我连忙把电视一关躲进了被窝，只把头露了出来，天不久就彻底暗了下去，就好像一只无形的野兽等着我出来然后……瞬间吞没！
当雨声滴滴答答打在窗户时我才想起不但窗户没关而且衣服也没收！一想到这儿我心都凉了，于是胆战心惊的从被窝里爬出来可瞬间又缩了回去原来刚好有一道闪电照亮了房子里的家具，家具的影子如同狰狞的魔鬼使我不得不打起了退堂鼓，最终我咬咬牙蹑手蹑脚的向阳台走去，之后以迅雷不及掩耳之需的速度把窗户关了起来，然后大口的喘着粗气，并哆哆嗦嗦地把衣服收下来完成这些后我深息一口气鼓起勇气打开了电灯，那时发现我早已战胜了恐惧，当时的我十分开心因为我又战胜了一个困难，我又获得了一份新的勇气！
后来啊，这件事一直激励着我，让我面对可怕又棘手的困难时束手无策的我想起了自己克服闪电和雷声时坚定的步伐，它告诉我，努力向前走，我能行！虽然这只是一件小事，但它给了我多大的鼓励和动力啊！
——个人克服困难英语作文实用5篇
Life is not always smooth sailing, one must go through some difficulties. Is able to overcome every difficulties, the key is to see how to overcome, is like sailing: as long as find the right direction, the wind again big not afraid!
Remember a long time ago, I am not afraid of sleeping alone, it's not brave, but don't know what is terrible! When I grow up a little, I know what is the earthquake floods and fires. So, I began to have nightmares. I was in elementary school, know the self-help method of various natural disasters, I was as cheerful as a long time ago. Now, I understand the two reason: 1, life is like a mirror, your attitude optimistic about it, it is also for your optimistic attitude, your attitude toward it pessimistic, it also pessimistic attitude to you. 2, "not through wind and rain, how can you see the rainbow?" In the face of difficulties can only advance, never retreat, "no pains, no gains, no pains, no gains", as long as I work hard to overcome, I believe, someday, I will overcome my careless fault! Finally, I draw a conclusion: "the way to total more than difficult!" As long as you are willing to overcome the difficulties, you can overcome the difficulties!
Before, I was a very timid girl. Timid to be afraid of mice, cowardice to dare not to sleep alone, cowardly to dare not to stand high, dare not to leave their parents.
Before I was five years old, my father used to take me to climb the west rock mountain. But every time, I was bouncing back and down. Not until I was five years old. It's not easy to have my summer vacation. I'm so excited. Because I can sleep until ten o 'clock. The next morning, my father pulled me out of my date with zhou, and "ordered" me to put on my clothes and put on my sneakers. I was confused and dragged to the foot of the mountain by my father.
"Ah? Dad, don't you, want to climb again?" "That's not, otherwise, when your fear of heights will be cured?" Although, my heart is very, very, and particularly reluctant, but I don't want to dad home to practice the "top ten torture" to me, had to crustily skin of head, hold my dad's hand and cascaded to climb. As the steps of the mountain were gentle, we were halfway up the hill. At this time, there appeared a temple in front of me, this is countless times is the place where I stand hard and retreat. In front of the temple gate stood a tall and steep staircase. I can't help but look up, my god, the two stone lions at the top are still showing the teeth of "scare" me! My father saw my fear, and used the law of tempion: "how is it? I knew you were so worthless that I would not bring you here." It worked, and I was taken by my father: "who says I can't climb up? Today, let's take a look at your baby girl's true skill.
Balzat once said: "the difficulty is a great abyss for the weak, but a fortune for the strong." Yes, the weak face difficulties and have no courage to overcome them, but for the strong, the difficulties are not so terrible, as long as the heart, the hard work, can overcome the difficulties. In life, I also have a lot of overcoming difficult experience, take the matter that learns to ride a bicycle last time to say.
On a hot afternoon, there was a big brother in the playground teaching a little sister to ride a bike. Needless to say, it was my brother and I. I was timidly sitting in the car, my brother holding on, encouraging me, but my hands were not listening, holding a faucet. My feet pounded on the wheel. Suddenly, there was a curve in front of me, and I had no time to react. Only one of them rolled over. I was bruised and bruised by this turn. Here is a piece of blue, and there is a purple over there. I burst into tears and my brother came to comfort me and said, "stop crying and learn how easy it is to ride a bicycle! I didn't learn to fall many times in that time, but with my strong willpower, I finally learned it. I tell you: to learn the same skill, not only to have the perseverance, but also to have the courage to bear hardships, to learn success, know?" I sobbed and nodded, lifting the bike. I'm going to step by step. Finally kungfu is willing, after N wrestling, finally succeeded!
It is not easy to learn, but perseverance and courage.
Not to insist, not to hardship, the ability to learn well.
Persistence, hardship, the remaining sweet and beautiful.
Difficulties, like a stone in my path, I must exert all my strength to keep going. However, because the road is different, the difficulty is different. My life will be filled with many obstacles, but these difficulties will not let me give in, but let me learn how to overcome difficulties.
When I was seven years old, I was very timid. In the evening, I must be accompanied by my mother to go to sleep in my room and sleep peacefully under my mother's escort. My mother gave me a way to overcome this difficulty.
That day, my mother said to me, "you have grown up and should be able to sleep on your own."
I said, "it's dark at night, how terrible it is! Maybe there will be a ghost that pops up and grabs me. At that time, you would lose such a beautiful daughter." My mother felt my hair and smiled and said, "silly daughter, there is nothing in this world. Believe in yourself, you can sleep on your own, you are no small." I decided to sleep.
At night, my mother said to me, "I've taught you a very effective way to count. You can fall asleep from a count to a hundred." I was dubious about my mother's words. Can I sleep on my own? I decided to give it a try. The light was so dark in the room that I was so frightened that I thought of what my mother had said to me: "you have grown up." I thought of this, and suddenly became brave. After a while I fell asleep.
Difficult, no big deal, just go brave face to overcome, can get this block of stone successful throw far away.
Last week, our school held a lecture tour of the five old "buji street industrial committee". That is a solemn scene, "five old" that earnest manner is very moving.
The five old words are meaningful, the sentence is wonderful, the clap of our hands, it seems that none of the excitement and excitement.
Among them, the most memorable words are the words "constantly improve yourself and overcome your shortcomings." This sentence is very common, probably many people have already heard enough. But who would have thought it would be easier to do so?
Everyone has faults, no matter who they are, whether they be great men, teachers, parents... Everyone has his own personality and his own thoughts. I thought: god should not create two identical people. Maybe no one pays attention to their shortcomings, or maybe some people know their shortcomings and don't want to overcome them. Because they think it's a difficult thing to do. Yes, it is a very difficult thing, and it is because of difficulties that we should overcome it. It will be the best experience in life. "Isn't it good to be back? Why change?" I've heard someone say this, and I agree with this person. But he should not have understood. It's not about making you change, it's about overcoming it. It's not the same thing. It's about getting yourself to do something bad, something wrong, something that's easy to get hurt. That's a weakness, not a character. You will have the opportunity to be the most perfect person as long as you are willing to overcome your shortcomings.
Overcome your shortcomings and become a perfectionist.
——克服困难的中考英语作文实用5份
We can't have good luck forever,so learning how to face difficulities is important.Some people feel upset when they meet difficulities,and they don't want to try to let their dreams come ture anymore.They just want to find a place and stay at there for a long time.So they won't have a great success in the end.But others are different,some people don't think difficulities are troubles,they believe " Difficulities is the mother of the success''and"Believe in myself and I will win '',they are confident and breave,and they choose to face the difficulities with a smile.They try their best to solve their problems and if they don't feel well,they'll talk to their friends or family members,so that they can be happier and more confident.And they don't mind what others say about them,they can always find a good way for themselves to relax.
I think if you can have a good psychology when you meet difficulities in your life,and be more confident and breave,
try to find a good way to relax,maybe talk to others or have a rest,and then think it over,make a plan to solve your problems.If you do so, you'll find that your difficulities are not as difficult as you think before!
Life is not always full of smiles and flowers. Every person has his own difficulties no matter how high his position or how great his achievement is. So it is of vital importance to have a correct attitude to face up to difficulties.
Some people feel so dejected about their difficulties that they fall into pessimism; others resort to putting the blame on others, the society or circumstance; still others are frightened by difficulties and give up halfway. All these people don't use their abilities to overcome difficulties. So their attitudes are negative.
The positive method is to utilize your ability to clear away your difficulties that appear in your way of life rather than run away from them. Confront difficulties with joyful energy and enthusiasm , and you will find the difficulties are really not so hard as they appear and they will disappear in due course.
evreyone both have problems，but the most important is how to deal it,because you can find a lot of happniess in the process. i always remenber that when i was young,i hated math very much,even i didn't want to listen any math class.but one day,my teacher said to me that i have to stady it,not only it's important,but also useful in daily life,and maybe the porcess is difficult but bitter pills may have wholesome,after that he believe that i can sucsussful! so,i hard working everyday,and listen every class carefully,if some exercises i don't konw how to work it out,i always asking teacher or each other.so now my math is good,and i also think that everytime i hard working to do these exercises,i'm happy!
Like any other English learner, I met a lot of difficulties in learning English.
First, I found it difficult to understand what I read because most English words have more than one meaning. Besides, I found it difficult to write in idiomatic English or put Chinese into idiomatic English. Finally, I couldn't express in English orally because I had no opportunity to communicate with native English speakers. Although I often read aloud, this didn't prove to be an effective way to improve my spoken English.
But I didn't lose heart in removing these obstacles. I tackled English vocabulary in two ways. First,I tried to understand and memorize the specific meaning of a word that appears in the context. Second, I enlarge my vocabulary by learning the dictionary by heart. To overcome Chinese English, I tried to think in English directly. Although I still had no opportunity to communicate with native speakers, I improved spoken English by listening to the English broadcast and writing English composition. This expedient turned out to be effective.
像任何其他的英语学*者,我在学*英语遇到了很多困难。
首先,我发现很难明白我读,因为大多数英语单词有一个以上的意义。此外,我发现很难用地道英语或者把中国变成地道英语。最后,我无法用英语口头表达,因为我没有机会与以英语为母语的人交流。虽然我经常大声朗读,这并没有被证明是一个有效的方法来提高我的英语口语。
但我不灰心的消除这些障碍。我从两方面解决英语词汇。首先,我试着去理解和记忆一个单词的具体含义,出现在上下文。第二,我扩大我的词汇量,学*词典。为了克服中国式的英语,我想直接用英语思考。虽然我还没有机会与母语者交流,我的英语口语提高了听英语广播和英语作文写作。这种办法是有效的。
Some people say the key to success is the luck,while others claim it is hard work.As far as I am concerned,there are many factors contributing to success and the three fundamental ones are diligence,devotion and perseverance.
Diligence is the first key factor to success.Diligence helps us remove ignorance,overcome difficulties,and enlighten our minds.It makes a fool wise,and a poor man rich.Devotion is another factor to success.Whatever we do,we must love it and do it whole-heartedly.Only when we set our minds on the job,can we do it well.Furthermore,perseverance,or a strong will,is the last key to success.Without a strong will,we are likely to give up when we meet some difficulties,let alone perform wonderful deeds.
To conclude,all great men achieve success through diligence,devotion and perseveranceJust as the famous saying goes,“No pains,no gains”，“Where there is a will,there is a way.”
——克服的英语作文3篇
As a famous saying goes that life is not a bed of roses,we will always encounter difficulties or troubles in our daily life.but what you should do when we are caught in difficult situations.
First we should keep an optimistic attitude.
Secondly,we should be clearly aware of our strengths and defects.
Thirdly,we should know well about our enemy,the difficulties.
Fourthly,when preparation work is ready,next we should put what we have planned into practice step by step.
There go several pieces of advice.First of all,as a saying said that well begun is half done,so it's better to start from the easiest part of the trouble.Then,when we have made some achievements in dealing with the trouble,we can move on to the harder part of it.This way of handling trouble will be more effectively.
After we conquer each high mountain of troubles,we will not only get new opportunities,but also make more achievements in the adventurous journey of our life.
We Must Face Failure
As we all know, "Failure is the mother of success." But few people can really understand what the saying means.
In the world, I am sure that no one dare say he hasn't met any trouble all his life. So we must face failure. In fact, failure is not fearful, but important thing is how to face it correctly. Facing failure, people will never take their fate lying down.They will try their best to work harder and harder until at last they succeed.
Not being courageous to face setbacks, people have no chance to enjoy the pleasure of success. So they have nothing to do but feel sad and empty all day and all night. In fact, they lose the chance of success themselves.My friend, whenever in trouble, please remember, "Failure is the mother of success."
我们必须面对失败
我们都知道："失败是成功之母。"但真正理解这句话的人却不多。
我相信，世界上没有一个人敢说他一生中从没遇到过任何麻烦。因此，我们必须面对失败。其实，失败并不可怕，重要的是如何正确看待它。敢于面对失败，人们将不再由命运摆布。他们将全力以赴的辛勤工作，直到最后成功。
不敢面对挫折，人们也就没有机会享受成功的喜悦。他们会无所事事，终日沮丧而空虚。事实上，是他们自己把成功的机会丧失了。
朋友们，无论何时你遇到了困难，请记住："失败是成功之母。"
Failure is a kind of pain, some people will have the emotional loss, the strong man, he can make the person can continue to progress in the growth. Should be required to be engaged in the work or an activity, to have the idea of success and failure of the preparation. Strive for success, but also to not afraid of failure, failure, and lessons learned, continue to advance.
I know my cousin, failed 4 years ago, the college entrance examination, with great remorse and was free to fill up a school, surrounded by all the strange faces, strange and indifferent interpersonal, professional, and then call him, all his words annoyed and confused, then one day, he made a decision outside the school rented a house, bought a com*r, he felt regain his dream of becoming a software engineer, no teacher, no room, even without any support, every day immersed in his small house, leaning on his indomitable dream and cheap the cigarette struggled for three years, culminating in the graduation day, because of his outstanding professional knowledge by the international company directly picked up.
The life of a person is not smooth sailing, how can you see the rainbow without the wind and rainEach failure has given me a lot of inspiration, but also make me strong.
——克服挫折的英语作文6篇
How I Overcame My Difficulties in Learning English? Most Chinese students have difficulties in learning English. The difficulties vary so much from person to person that it is difficult to cite here in a few words.
Some may have problems in reading. Others may have trouble in writing. I also had problems in English learning, but my difficulty seemed to lie in listening. For example, when tested for listening comprehension, I couldn't understand a single sentence, let alone a passage of medium level. In order to overcome the difficulty in my English learning, I made great efforts to find the key to the problem. I consulted my teacher and found out that I merely didn't have enough time to practice listening. So I bought a tape recorder and listened to it at least two hours a day. In addition, I listened to "Special English" on VOA. I also went out of my way to speak to foreigners on the campus whenever we meet so that I could have the chance to listen to the native speakers. After half a year's hard work, I could get 70% of the questions correct in listening comprehension tests.
I own my success to my English teacher. It is him who tells me the correct way to learn English. It is him who always encourages me when I encounter difficulties and feel disappointed.
acquires new meaning in today＇s era (时代) of change.
The road to success starts from the beginning, and our world is one full of competitions, If only children have never had any setback, in the long run they won＇t bear any setback or failure in life. Some setback early on may make them ready for very challenging issues at a later date.
One of the worst things that winter vacation gave me was that I had a bad exam day. We went to school with our report card. Soon the whole class showed Zilla the report card with the hair falling down.
When I saw the report card, my heart fell into the abyss. My expectation turned into endless disappointment. I highly believe that Chinese is more than 70, and mathematics is worse than English.
My eyes are moist and tears are like this in my 50s Rain, tears like pearls flowing my regret, at that moment, I not only on the way home, but also whispered in my heart: Jiaoyi, Jiaoyi, how can you live up to your parents? When I came home, I was more at a loss in fear and trembling. I didn't know how to treat my parents. I was embarrassed to say, "Mom, I did well in the final exam this time." But not angry mother, as had been expected, said: "usually there is no serious spirit, down-to-earth attitude, how can we do a good job." I said, "my mother's English is the worst this time," the worst "education I said again:" who calls just remember to play every day, you don't learn English, what you need to learn is often prepared, not smart children, think of us This time, my mother is very kind, but it makes me more nervous.
I really hope that my mother can beat me and scold me for a meal. In this way, I may say much better in my heart. It's shame and reluctant tears.
I'm sorry that their parents will fight for their parents in the future. The children will come back soon. My mother told dad and dad about the matter My father just touched my head and shook my hand.
Although my father didn't say a word, I understood what he said: my parents are full of hope for me. They all hope that I can learn lessons, fall down and get up. If I want to catch up with me, I will secretly make up my mind to study hard and report to my parents with excellent results.
A person's life is like a ship traveling on the sea, sometimes in the open sea worthiness of vessels required to control the direction, if in the right direction, the ship was at most small wind Xiaolangdi sloshing about the hull. If the direction is wrong, may be to swallow the tsunami, in any case, the ship can not be plain sailing.
I'll tell you a story now: the invention of light bulb before Edison had spent thousands of filament materials have failed to do, abusinessman ironically him: You are not manufacturing the lamp, you tested thousands of materials did not any success. Edison replied: No, I at least have proved that 1000 kinds of materials are not suitable to do filament. I read this story very touching, I think Edison put it best. Even if Edison failed thousands of times, so what? Him ultimately successful. As the saying goes: Failure is the mother of success. There is no "failure of the mother," How has "successful son." With thousands of Edison "failed mothers, will be no" success "to you? Eat one graben, a gain in your wit. And eating are thousands of Edison Graben, one of thousands of long-chi. If you do not eat graben, how long Moses? Edison With a few thousand times that have experienced failure before they tap the door to success, so that he immortalized the great inventions.
I am studying childhood bike too, I have said many times from the bike fell off, but then my heart just want a word: failure is the mother of success. I rode well may have a bad hand grip, and so on Board unwieldy. I tried again and again a variety of methods, finally succeeded
Indeed after a person before anything will fail, only in the failure of the course of lessons, the experience of piling up, you can succeed. Failure is also a growing part of.
Frustration is everyone must face, often after the setbacks, will achieve good results, good career but also constantly hone their own, I believe they will be better. I believe we all heard the story of Einstein making a small bench, Einstein failed again and again, but he never give up, until the success, because there is a driving force to complete this task, and hard work hard Hard work, in fact, Einstein is not a smart person, in fact, he is stupid, because he has a goal, has been moving towards the goal. Lenin said, "You are afraid of the wolf, you do not go to the woods, fear of frustration is never experience the fun of success." Believe in yourself, resist setbacks, face the facts, to this goal.
I like the next go, every time and classmates chess, I always win more than less. The teacher often praise me, my heart is beautiful, feel that they are great.
Today, the class came a new classmate. The teacher let us both before the next Council, began to play chess, I am very serious, we are not up and down, then, I took the next step, although I try to remedy, but it was too late, I lost.
Get out of class, my mother saw my face is not happy, asked me how the matter. I bowed my head and said, "I lost my new classmates.
My mother said earnestly: "win on the happy, lost on the sad? Learning is not smooth sailing, fell to get up, lost can also work hard! A little bit of frustration on the retreat it?
I understand that there is a kind of happiness called frustration.
——卡耐基人性的弱点读书心得实用5篇
《人性的弱点》一书是由美国的“**教育之父”戴尔·卡耐基所著。在20世纪早期，当时的美国的现状是经济步入萧条，残酷战争使得人们严重丧失了对美好生活的信心。这种情况下卡耐基利用社会学和心理学方面的专业知识，对人性进行了深刻的探讨和分析。
在书中他讲述许多普通人通过自己的奋斗最终获得成功，这些真实故事激励并教育了无数陷入迷茫和困境的人，卡耐基用他的艺术灵魂帮助他们重新找回自我，明确了各自人生的奋斗方向。他的这种教育方式影响深远，使很多人获益匪浅，甚至包括几位美国总统都受到这种教育思想的熏陶。读完这部作品后，我了解到该如何为人处事，领略到书中精髓不仅有利于提高自身的修养，也告诉我更好地融入集体，让他人幸福，也是让自己幸福。
书中经典的几处让我印象深刻。其中一句是“人就是这样，做错事的时候只会怨天尤人，就是不去责怪自己。”这句话我们耳熟能详，而且经常说到，这样的情景我们经常会身处其中，就是当你用一个手指指着别人说这句话的时候，也许另外的手指正指着你自己！
卡耐基一语道破天机，赤裸裸地揭示着人的劣根性。人们总是喜欢在别人背后谈论他人的是非对错，却从不爱对比他人审视自己的过错。俗话说：“人非圣贤，孰能无过？但当过错产生时我们考虑事情总是*惯于站在自己的立场上去思考，因为缺少理解和宽容，过错得不到及时改进，也不能起到很好的警示作用。相反，若我们能够克服这一劣根性，双方都能站在别人的角度审视自身，理解并宽恕他人，效果必定会大不相同。
另一处“真诚地欣赏与赞美他人”也让我感触颇深。每个人都喜欢被赞美，赞美他人是一种美德。这条规律适用在工作中，教育我们学会真诚地关心并赞美身边的朋友、同事，才能赢得他人最大的信任。
《人性的弱点》这本书内的提示与建议除了具备指导性外，还有着极强的可操作性，概括讲就是：认清人性的弱点，利于我们有针对性地应对，处理事情会达到事半功倍的效果。读这本书，也让我明白：这些提到的弱点，既可以是自己的，也可以是他人的'。了解他人身上的弱点，就可以使我们在日常的人际交往中各个击破，发展顺利；了解了自身的弱点，可以使自己扬长避短，凸显自己的优势。
这本书，读一遍，只能了解一下大概，必须多读几遍，也适合反复读，用心读，只有这样才能深刻体会其中的含义。这本书就是一面镜子，帮助我认清自己，了解自己，并不断完善自己，驾驭自己，最后要成为善于经营自己的人，在工作中让我坚定努力的方向，不断创造美好的人生！
提起戴尔·卡耐基相信很多人都不陌生，其代表作《人性的弱点》可谓是已经达到了家喻户晓的地步。而我在写这篇文章的时候，刚好是的情人节前夕，可以说重新看一遍卡耐基的经典之作发现也是一个缘分。之前很多人也烦已过卡耐基的这本书，但是可能侧重点都在于如何与人打交道，处理好人与人之间的人际关系，其实着也没有错，毕竟在国内这个处处都要讲关系的大环境之下，又看到这样一本专门分析人性的人，如何不关注这方面呢。但是又从另一个角度来看的话，如何都是抱着要学会如何去分析人去揣测别人的内心来投其所好的目的来看这本书的话，何尝不是带有相当的'功利性呢？
当然上面所说的都是我之前年纪尚小的时候的偏激看法，今天在看到这本由韩文桥翻译的戴尔·卡耐基的完整版插图本的《人性的弱点》的时候，我突然想到，其实这本书如果拿来给情侣，给自己所爱的人来看的话，是不是会有意想不到的收获呢？
虽然本书谈到的主要是人际关系的处理，但是情侣之间，夫妻之间何尝不是一种人际关系，只不过更加亲密罢了，不带功利性罢了。当然在开始阅读者本书之前，还是建议读者都先认真看一下作者提到的“获取本书最大收益的9个建议”，这些建议其实不仅仅适合本书的阅读，也适合看其他任何书
可能有人看到这里会反驳说情侣之间，夫妻之间的关系是很特殊的，是不能那这个套上去的，但是我想说的是正因为这份特殊性，这份亲密性，才更应该看一看本书。本书正文一共分为六篇，也就是六个部分，单从每个部分的章节名来看的话涉及的范围可谓是相当广泛，但是也正因为这份广泛所以我认为是完全可以适用到情侣之间的。
例如在第一篇“人际关系的3大技巧”中就三个章节里面通过事例来穿插得出的人际交往的技巧（都是黑色粗体标出，这样更加醒目）。第一章谈到的：指责与批评不能让人长久地改变，反而会招来怨恨。可以说很多的情侣，夫妻之间吵架，基本上这句话就总结得相当到位。
还有后面的“人际交往中，您一定要明白：我们不是和理性打交道，而是和有情感、有偏见、骄傲、虚荣、活生生的人在打交道”。可以说这句话来封住有些情侣吵架，一方给出类似“讲道理讲不通”之类的借口给堵上了。
透过这简短的例子，眼前的你们是不是认为这也是夜奔不错的情人节的礼物呢。如果打算在明天的情人节之际给自己心爱的人送上一本书的话，那么本书是不错的选择。最后，希望天下所有的情侣们明天情人节快乐！
《人性的弱点》主要从人性方面进行剖析，讲解了人性本身的弱点，我们能明白自己的弱点并克服它，使它成为我们人生路上的助力，使我们事半功倍。个人收获比较大的有以下三点：
一、人际交往
现在都说“社交力”是一项非常重要的软技能，有人因此万劫不复，有人因此青云直上。在人际交往中，我们或多或少都会有各自不同的问题和困惑，就算是交际小能手也是慢慢锻炼起来的，并没有人能完美地做好与人沟通的交往。那么，想要如何更好的沟通交流呢？外在吸引。一个仪表整洁的人，且能使自己保持自尊和真诚，常常更容易获得别人的尊敬和敬佩。
都说“人靠衣装马靠鞍”。很多人却误会了这句话，以为一定要华丽昂贵的衣服或配饰，才能展现自己的华贵，提升自己的身份。其实不是。一个落魄脏乱的.人，换一身干净整洁的衣服，有一个适合自己的发型和微笑的面容，堪比重生一般，和之前判若两人。这样的人通常让人不会反感，反而更多亲*感，无需华贵的衣服，已经轻易能获得别人的认可和尊重了，要知道越简单越内涵。
二、正确工作
每一个奋斗成才的人，都会有一个选择、确定目标的过程。心中有目标，便会使自己不会太留意与之不相关的烦恼，不会去计较太多与之不相关的麻烦，这会使你变得豁达、开朗，且能使你更专注自己的目标，更有利于达到目标。
我们在成年之后，尤其在步入社会，必然需要为自己的的人生做个规划，或工作目标，无论长期或短期，都是有助于我们成长的。
三、家庭幸福
在关于家庭的章节里，主要包含夫妻相处，婚姻生活的内容。家庭是由男人和女人组成的。
家庭幸福的根源是男人和女人的相处融洽，情感深厚，共同经营家庭这份事业。
男人和女人本身就是不同的，书中讲了很多女人如何对待男人，女人如何做一些使男人怎样的事情，会有一个好的家庭生活。这说的没错。
但现在的女性自我意识觉醒的时代，也许男人也应该去学*了解下，男人如何对待女人，会使得家庭更幸福。
当我们互相学*，互相成长，这样的家庭才能更长久的真正的幸福吧。
正如书中作者简介介绍在20世纪上半叶的美国，当经济不景气、不*等，战争等恶魔正在磨灭人类追求美好生活的心灵时，卡耐基先生以他对人性的洞见，利用大量普通人不断努力取得成功的故事，通过他的演讲，他的演讲和著作唤起无数陷入迷惘者的斗志，激励他们取得辉煌的成功。正是这篇简介，使我产生浓厚兴趣想要了解，这里面究竟写了什么，竟会有如此大的力量。
读完卡耐基的作品后，我了解到这里一部教人如何为人处事的书，这部书正好合适即将踏入社会的我们，学会该如何待人做事，不仅有利于提高自己的能力，使我们更好地融入社会，从而获得成功，也有利于融合自己和周围的人的关系，让他人幸福，也让自己幸福。
其实，人与人之间的关系是很微妙的，一个眼神，一句话都会对周围的人产生影响。
例如，面对朋友时，我们应该学会宽容，尤其是当面对朋友的过失时，要存有一颗包容的心，正如卡耐基所说的：“批评不但不会改变事实，反而会招致愤恨。”小心地处理所谓的“批评”。这就是与朋友相处的基本准则之一，不过，在*时面对朋友时，该学会如何真诚地赞赏朋友，每个人都渴望被肯定，被赞赏，当朋友取得成功时，给予最真诚地赞赏，那是很令人感动的。“在你每天的生活之旅中，别忘了为人间留下一点赞美的温馨。这一点小火花会燃烧起友谊的火焰。”卡耐基的这番话真的是直入人心。朋友是我们一生中很重要的一部分，我们应该要珍惜，要懂得该如何对待这难得的友谊。
那么，该如何对待陌生人呢？当我们走进一个团体，走进社会，会遇到各种各样我们不认识的人，那该如何对待呢？其实道理都是相通的，在大家处理同一件事时，必须尊重他个人的意见，友善的对待他人，不要把自己的.意见强加于人，因为人人都是*等的，你有你的想法，我也有我的想法，所以只有当大家彼此尊重和友善，才会达成一致解决问题。
“江海之所以能为百谷之王，是因为懂得身处低下，方能成为百谷之王”。这句卡耐基之良言须谨记。
其实，我们也应该要好好地对待自己，而我们首先要做的就是学会喜欢自己，史迈利布兰敦在一本书中写道：“适当程度的‘自爱’对每一个正常人来说，是很健康的表现，为了从事工作或达到某种目标，适度关心自己是必要的。”卡耐基对此也十分肯定。其实，喜欢自己也是一种自信的表现，所以学会喜欢自己是很重要的。
另外，我们应该走出或远离孤单，在现代孤单是一种通病，不管是谁，内心总会在某个时刻，某个时期感到孤独，也许是在离开家乡以后，也许是在亲人离世后，总之不论何时，我们都应努力地向着太阳光，把阴暗留在背后。正如卡耐基所言：“我们若想克服孤寂，就必须远离自怜的阴影，勇敢走入充满光亮的人群，我们要去认识人，去结交新的朋友。”
在《人性的弱点》这一书中，并未直接告诉我们人性有哪些弱点，而是告诉我们该怎么做。其实，那些告诉我们，我们却又做不到的，就是我们人性的弱点，所以，从这本书中，我受益匪浅。
一、人际交往
现在都说“社交力”是一项非常重要的软技能，有人因此万劫不复，有人因此青云直上。在人际交往中，我们或多或少都会有各自不同的问题和困惑，就算是交际小能手也是慢慢锻炼起来的，并没有人能完美地做好与人沟通的交往。那么，想要如何更好的沟通交流呢？外在吸引。一个仪表整洁的人，且能使自己保持自尊和真诚，常常更容易获得别人的尊敬和敬佩。
都说“人靠衣装马靠鞍”。很多人却误会了这句话，以为一定要华丽昂贵的`衣服或配饰，才能展现自己的华贵，提升自己的身份。其实不是。一个落魄脏乱的人，换一身干净整洁的衣服，有一个适合自己的发型和微笑的面容，堪比重生一般，和之前判若两人。这样的人通常让人不会反感，反而更多亲*感，无需华贵的衣服，已经轻易能获得别人的认可和尊重了，要知道越简单越内涵。
二、正确工作
每一个奋斗成才的人，都会有一个选择、确定目标的过程。心中有目标，便会使自己不会太留意与之不相关的烦恼，不会去计较太多与之不相关的麻烦，这会使你变得豁达、开朗，且能使你更专注自己的目标，更有利于达到目标。
我们在成年之后，尤其在步入社会，必然需要为自己的的人生做个规划，或工作目标，无论长期或短期，都是有助于我们成长的。
三、家庭幸福
在关于家庭的章节里，主要包含夫妻相处，婚姻生活的内容。家庭是由男人和女人组成的。
家庭幸福的根源是男人和女人的相处融洽，情感深厚，共同经营家庭这份事业。
男人和女人本身就是不同的，书中讲了很多女人如何对待男人，女人如何做一些使男人怎样的事情，会有一个好的家庭生活。这说的没错。
但现在的女性自我意识觉醒的时代，也许男人也应该去学*了解下，男人如何对待女人，会使得家庭更幸福。
当我们互相学*，互相成长，这样的家庭才能更长久的真正的幸福吧。
