Etiquette education, which plays an important role in moral education, has caught more and more peoples attention. Because it is an integral part of quality-oriented education and contributes to the construction of a harmonious society.
However, due to the lack of etiquette education in schools and families as well as the bad influence of the social environment, many college students have little knowledge of etiquette, thus it is quite common to see their bad behaviors. For example, they have no respect for their professors and the old, they talk to each other loudly in the library and dont care about what they should wear in public places.
Regarding the seriousness of this phenomenon, I think we should take the following measures to arouse university students etiquette awareness. First, parents should set a good example for their children at home. Second, colleges should pay attention to students etiquette education and open some courses relating to etiquette, and they ought to try their best to create a good campus environment at the same time.
Chinese traditional virtue is the excellent moral heritage we inherited from the ancients. We learned many moral characters, such as, thrift, honesty, affection, filial piety, loyalty, humaneness and so on through many old stories and life practice. I summarized it into three aspects: humanity, courtesy and integrity.
To begin with, Chinese culture advocates humanity. This thought does not only seek for human peace but also for the harmony between human and nature and other creatures. There are many examples that show humanity in the history. The emperors, who gain people’s great supports such as Tang Taizong, Kang Xi, complied with the philosophy that “Cultivate humanity, and then you could cultivate your family, administrate the country, and bring peace all over the world” (The Book of Rites). Additionally, there goes a famous saying, “honor the aged of other people as we honor our own, take care of the young of other people as we take care of our own” (the Analects). This important part of humanity makes great contributions to establishing a harmonious society. All in all, humanity makes us show respect to not only human life but also the environment and all kinds of life around us.
In addition, China, a nation which has civilization of 5,000 years, puts courtesy at a very important position. From the old to the young, from the important events to the trivial things, it is common for people to use this rule to regulate their behavior. The traditional story of Kong Rong sharing pears is well-known by Chinese people. The behavior of KongRong to choose the smallest pear and leave the bigger ones to his brothers is a good explanation for the courtesy and comity. Courtesy makes us form many good habits in the daily life, for instance, saying hello to teachers, respecting parents, showing courtliness to our friends, giving up our seat on the bus to the people who needs it more. What’s more, courtesy play an important role in the Chinese diplomatic policy which do great help to the success of building steady relationship with other nations.
Last but not least, Chinese ethics place a great emphasis on integrity. It is the basic
principle when we get along with others. For this reason, I regard it as the most important rule we should obey to regulate our behavior. Integrity is needed in every field of our life. To be honest and sincere is the fundamental thing to be a human being. Just as the famous saying of Socrates “The dishonest life is not worth living”. Moreover, honesty and integrity is necessary when we are handling the relationship with friends and family members. Keeping secrets among family and friends often harm them deliberately or in deliberately. Still, in a business perspective, integrity is mainly with sincere reception, fair trade, abiding by the contract, pay the liabilities in time, and not cooking the books, etc. As a student, we show our integrity through pursuing the true academic knowledge, obeying the discipline of test, using the true and correct information to compete in all kinds of award selection.
In summary, I am dee* convinced that all these great virtues had, have and still will have tremendous effect on the field of regulating people’s behaviors. The Chinese traditional virtues are not only the essence of ancient moral civilization, but also the cohesion of Chinese national family. Great efforts are essential for us to make in order to pursue and inherit all these invisible spiritual culture heritages.
Etiquette to society is what apparel is to the individual. Without apparel men would go in shameful nudity which would surely lead to the corruption of morals; and without etiquette society would be in a pitiable state and the necessary intercourse between its members would be interfered with by needless offences and troubles.
If society were a train, the etiquette would be the rails along which only the train could rumble forth; if society were a state coach, the etiquette would be the wheels and axis, on which only the coach could roll forward. The lack of proprieties would make the most intimate friends turn to be the most decided enemies and the friendly or allied countries declare war against each other. We can find many examples in the history of mankind. Therefore I advise you to stand on ceremony before anyone else and to take pains not to do anything against etiquette lest you give offences or make enemies.
——*礼仪的英语作文 (菁华5篇)
Chinese is a state of ceremonies is an undeniable fact. But some people think these rituals are unnecessary. If this is a question and answer question, these people may be half and half wrong. Among the many rituals in China, some can be simplified, but not removed.
For example: a feast for important guests to the former owner introduced to everyone in the ancient table, and the enthusiasm of concise message; when the Opening Banquet master will personally pour, in order to the elders and the guests toast, can not be forced; for the guests to drink wine, and to greet the guests; King dishes to the guests the guests should pay attention to diet, hobbies, not the number, the amount is not large, or let guests embarrassment; the owner should pay attention to extensive exchange during which, not to heat the cold he, as a female guest, should pay more attention to the conversation and respect for women; the owner cannot precede the guest fangxiawankuai, until the guests that had eaten the banquet speech can master; to accompany the guest of honor, gargle, wash their hands after tea to another seat.
In addition, in front of the guests, the owner can not scold the children and servants; main dis* with the customer's children, their children away to the owner, no matter which is right and which is wrong, should apologize to each other, but not when the guest lessons their children, or guests will feel uncomfortable.
The feast is not for the children. I remember when the dinner, ask the children to do to understand the rules, respect people, polite, educated, there are three allowed: meals are not allowed to appear noise, dishes rattle, but are not allowed to knock the table with chopsticks knock the bowl, allowed Baji mouth and a virtual gong. Two grandmother said a meal to hear the voice of his mouth disgusting, when eating out virtual Gong unbearable. And let the children eat choke hiccups initiative under the table, not allowed to drag a stool to screech, which is not allowed to make a noise; two is not allowed to mouth “ ”, the elders do not Dongkuaizi children is not the first dish, not the mouth filling, no don't gobble, stand up food, not enough food may indicate the elders to clip, are not allowed to use chopsticks in the dishes are not allowed to pick random shuffle, ate with eyes glued to the dishes on the table, are not allowed to use chopsticks, don't eat and are not allowed to export foul throw in or mixed teeth spit on the ground, not out of rice, steamed bread and leftovers to expose the scalp to pull clean bowl. The most taboo is that children put chopsticks in the rice bowl; three, absolutely not allow children to drink. The year two grandmothers love kids together and Lele, at the dinner table playing some games, lost to the program, but also let the kids meal than rice bowls and the most clean desktop, the warm atmosphere is very strong. Here you can save a lot of steps.
Take a negative example: courtesy, etiquette, any civilized society, any civilized nation, people always pay great attention to civility. Because courtesy is one of the moral norms in human society to promote friendly and harmonious interpersonal interaction, and it is a bridge to live in harmony with others. It symbolizes the civilized process of a society and reflects the spiritual outlook of a nation. The Chinese nation has always attached great importance to following the rules of etiquette and treating people politely. Many of these intriguing experiences, both past and present, are enlightening. The following note: 1. people. Get along with people, good at the head. “ good ” should be from the heart of sincerity, is sincere in shape on the outside, rather than just a form of unnecessary and overelaborate formalities and clever talk and an ingratiating manner. 2. people. Reciprocity is an important criterion to be polite. That is to say, accept others' kindness, must be just to. In this way, interpersonal communication can continue on an equal and friendly basis in a virtuous circle. This is not to be omitted.
In a word, etiquette in interpersonal relationships, process performance to a certain, common procedures of self-discipline and respect of others, to dress, communication, communication, EQ etc.. From the point of view of personal accomplishment, etiquette can be said to be a person's inherent accomplishment and quality of external performance. Therefore, etiquette can be simplified, but some etiquette can not be removed.
Today is the Dragon Boat Festival, early in the morning, mother will call us up and I sat rubbing his eyes, mother took out a lot of sachets, give everyone wear, I bring is pink zongzi shape of sachets.
Let me talk about the origin of the Dragon Boat Festival. Is that of the fifth lunar month, is the day of qu yuan jumped jiang, because qu yuan is the minister of the king huai nice but he said to king huai huai would not listen to them, as a result of qu yuan felt useless, finally jump river, the river was called the miluo river. In this way, people have a custom to play dragon boat race, because the villagers think qu yuan is patriotic to row the dragon boat to pursue qu yuan, but can't catch up. Also eat mung bean cake, eat zongzi, drink realgar wine, the custom of planting mugwort on the door, also bring confetti, sachets and so on.
This morning, my father and I went to buy mugwort. We didn't buy it. It was too late. We bought oil cakes. We went to grandpa's grandmother's house, and really did eat zongzi, mung bean cake, oil cake, no realgar wine, not drinking, and wearing the color line, especially happy. Ha ha!
Dear Marc, How are you?
I am very happy that you want to learn about Chinese eating manners. Chopsticks should be used when eating, but you are not allowed to stick in the food and point at any others, because it is very rude. Please try to keep silence when eating, especially when your mouth is filled. You cal hold the bowl to eat, it is very convenient. When eating with friends and relatives, you must toast to those people who are older than you. In China, we also share the food in one meal. Welcome to China oneday, I would take you to feel it instantly.
Your sincerely,
Kai Liu
The Dragon Boat Festival, also called the Duanwu Festival, is celebrated on the fifth day of the fifth month according to the Chinese calendar. People always eat rice dumplings and watch dragon boat races to celebrate it. The festival is best known for its dragon-boat races, especially in the southern places where there are many rivers and lakes. It’s very popular. The rice dumpling is made of glutinous rice, meat and so on. You can eat different kinds of rice dumplings. They are very delicious. And Dragon Boat Festival is for Qu Yuan. He is an honest minister who is said to have committed by drowning himself in a river. Overall, the Dragon Boat Festival is very interesting! the Middle-Autumn Festival The Middle-Autumn Festival is one of the traditional Chinese festivals, it is often held in September or October. During the festival, family members get united and have moon cakes together. There are various kinds of moon cakes, such as bean paste, egg-yolk or meat. The shape of a moon cake is round as it symbolizes a big moon. Moreover, in the evening of the Middle-Autumn Festival, people get together in a vacant place, eating delicious moon cakes while appreciating the beautiful moon hanging in the dark sky. To conclude, the Middle-Autumn Festival is a very nice festival for Chinese people. Last Qing Ming Festival, I return home to worship my grandfather. Qing Ming Festival is a folk Festival. In the past, In the past, the Qing Ming Festival was called "Arbor Day". But Today, Chinese visit their family graves to tend to any underbrush that has grown. Weeds are pulled, and dirt swept away, and the family will set out offerings of food and spirit money. Unlike the sacrifices at a family's home altar, the offerings at the tomb usually consist of dry, bland food.One theory is that since any number of ghosts roomed around a grave area, the less appealing food will be consumed by the ancestors, and not be plundered by strangers. With the passing of time, this celebration of life became a day to the honor past ancestors. Following folk religion, the Chinese believed that the spirits of deceased ancestors looked after the family. Sacrifices of food and spirit money could keep them happy, and the family would prosper through good harvests and more children. Chinese Spring Festival celebrating the end of winter and the warmth of spring. It began in the last day of the lunar year, ends in the 15th day of lunar New Year, and also is the Lantern Festival. During the Spring Festival, people use red lantern and Spring Festival couplets decorate a house, put on all kinds of colored clothes, often visit friendsand relatives or together eat dumplings, fish, meat and other delicious food. The children are looking forward to receiving red envelope money, and together they play each other the fireworks, with happy. Street with dragonand lion dance and some other carnival activities，CCTV will held the grand Spring Festival gala. Lantern Festival is a China’s traditional festival. It is celebrated on the fifteenth day of the first month of the lunar year.Lantern Festival is one of the biggest holidays in China. Several days before Lantern Festival, people begin to make lanterns. Lanterns are made in the shape of different animals, vegetables, fruits and many, other things. While making lanterns people usually write riddles on lanterns. On the eve of Lantern Festival, all the lanterns are hung up.On Lantern Festival people go outside to have a look at the lanterns and guess the riddles on the lanterns. Perhaps you call see some wonderful folk performances, Dragon Dance and New Younger. Everything is very interesting and everyone is very happy. Our life is rich and varied.
Modern relatively popular Chinese meal etiquette is on traditional mid-north with reference on the basis of foreign manners. Its seating to borrow western dinner party for the law, the right first principal guest sat in the guest host, the second on the right or left in master first principal guest right, flexible processing, wine served on the right by guests, after the Philippines, master, guthrie female guests first, after male guest. Wine, not too full steamy quaver. Serving sequence remains tradition, after first cold heat. The guest of hot food should be the opposite seat left; Single gets or dishes on the table to have the first point and snacks, top whole chicken bingo, whole duck, whole fish, etc, not plastic food toward are emic head and tail. These programs can not only make the whole process, more make a harmonious and orderly subject-object identity and emotional expression and communication. Therefore, table etiquette can make feasts on active complete thoughtful and make the subject-object both sides get all-round display tutelage.
Must wait until all the people here can begin any form of dining activities - even if someone was late, will have to wait. Once you are ready, they can do the host. Opening During dinner, the host must assume a active role - urged guests enjoy eating and drinking is completely reasonable.
On formal banquet dishes on the way, like the projected slides, every time a dish. Surprisingly, rice is not with dishes is alexandrine, but can choose to eat. Because dishes have distinguishing feature each, should individual taste, and only eat once from a bowl, not a mixed taste. Do not use a bowl dish, can eat. Bones and shells class on individual plate. Don't clean dishes must often use clean plate is replaced.
A Chinese restaurant if no tea table and call no formal. Therefore, as storage varieties of tea is wise practices, ensure the most astute taste also care to. Relevant tea problem, should pay attention to several pieces of key things. Seat should be responsible for the recent teapot for others and yourself ZhenCha - according to age, ZhenCha order by the elders to the youth, last pour. When somebody else for you ZhenCha, protocol should use fingers to knock table, doing so is to thank the ZhenCha and respect.
——*礼仪的英语作文 (菁华5篇)
Chinese is a state of ceremonies is an undeniable fact. But some people think these rituals are unnecessary. If this is a question and answer question, these people may be half and half wrong. Among the many rituals in China, some can be simplified, but not removed.
For example: a feast for important guests to the former owner introduced to everyone in the ancient table, and the enthusiasm of concise message; when the Opening Banquet master will personally pour, in order to the elders and the guests toast, can not be forced; for the guests to drink wine, and to greet the guests; King dishes to the guests the guests should pay attention to diet, hobbies, not the number, the amount is not large, or let guests embarrassment; the owner should pay attention to extensive exchange during which, not to heat the cold he, as a female guest, should pay more attention to the conversation and respect for women; the owner cannot precede the guest fangxiawankuai, until the guests that had eaten the banquet speech can master; to accompany the guest of honor, gargle, wash their hands after tea to another seat.
In addition, in front of the guests, the owner can not scold the children and servants; main dis* with the customer's children, their children away to the owner, no matter which is right and which is wrong, should apologize to each other, but not when the guest lessons their children, or guests will feel uncomfortable.
The feast is not for the children. I remember when the dinner, ask the children to do to understand the rules, respect people, polite, educated, there are three allowed: meals are not allowed to appear noise, dishes rattle, but are not allowed to knock the table with chopsticks knock the bowl, allowed Baji mouth and a virtual gong. Two grandmother said a meal to hear the voice of his mouth disgusting, when eating out virtual Gong unbearable. And let the children eat choke hiccups initiative under the table, not allowed to drag a stool to screech, which is not allowed to make a noise; two is not allowed to mouth “ ”, the elders do not Dongkuaizi children is not the first dish, not the mouth filling, no don't gobble, stand up food, not enough food may indicate the elders to clip, are not allowed to use chopsticks in the dishes are not allowed to pick random shuffle, ate with eyes glued to the dishes on the table, are not allowed to use chopsticks, don't eat and are not allowed to export foul throw in or mixed teeth spit on the ground, not out of rice, steamed bread and leftovers to expose the scalp to pull clean bowl. The most taboo is that children put chopsticks in the rice bowl; three, absolutely not allow children to drink. The year two grandmothers love kids together and Lele, at the dinner table playing some games, lost to the program, but also let the kids meal than rice bowls and the most clean desktop, the warm atmosphere is very strong. Here you can save a lot of steps.
Take a negative example: courtesy, etiquette, any civilized society, any civilized nation, people always pay great attention to civility. Because courtesy is one of the moral norms in human society to promote friendly and harmonious interpersonal interaction, and it is a bridge to live in harmony with others. It symbolizes the civilized process of a society and reflects the spiritual outlook of a nation. The Chinese nation has always attached great importance to following the rules of etiquette and treating people politely. Many of these intriguing experiences, both past and present, are enlightening. The following note: 1. people. Get along with people, good at the head. “ good ” should be from the heart of sincerity, is sincere in shape on the outside, rather than just a form of unnecessary and overelaborate formalities and clever talk and an ingratiating manner. 2. people. Reciprocity is an important criterion to be polite. That is to say, accept others' kindness, must be just to. In this way, interpersonal communication can continue on an equal and friendly basis in a virtuous circle. This is not to be omitted.
In a word, etiquette in interpersonal relationships, process performance to a certain, common procedures of self-discipline and respect of others, to dress, communication, communication, EQ etc.. From the point of view of personal accomplishment, etiquette can be said to be a person's inherent accomplishment and quality of external performance. Therefore, etiquette can be simplified, but some etiquette can not be removed.
Today is the Dragon Boat Festival, early in the morning, mother will call us up and I sat rubbing his eyes, mother took out a lot of sachets, give everyone wear, I bring is pink zongzi shape of sachets.
Let me talk about the origin of the Dragon Boat Festival. Is that of the fifth lunar month, is the day of qu yuan jumped jiang, because qu yuan is the minister of the king huai nice but he said to king huai huai would not listen to them, as a result of qu yuan felt useless, finally jump river, the river was called the miluo river. In this way, people have a custom to play dragon boat race, because the villagers think qu yuan is patriotic to row the dragon boat to pursue qu yuan, but can't catch up. Also eat mung bean cake, eat zongzi, drink realgar wine, the custom of planting mugwort on the door, also bring confetti, sachets and so on.
This morning, my father and I went to buy mugwort. We didn't buy it. It was too late. We bought oil cakes. We went to grandpa's grandmother's house, and really did eat zongzi, mung bean cake, oil cake, no realgar wine, not drinking, and wearing the color line, especially happy. Ha ha!
Dear Marc, How are you?
I am very happy that you want to learn about Chinese eating manners. Chopsticks should be used when eating, but you are not allowed to stick in the food and point at any others, because it is very rude. Please try to keep silence when eating, especially when your mouth is filled. You cal hold the bowl to eat, it is very convenient. When eating with friends and relatives, you must toast to those people who are older than you. In China, we also share the food in one meal. Welcome to China oneday, I would take you to feel it instantly.
Your sincerely,
Kai Liu
The Dragon Boat Festival, also called the Duanwu Festival, is celebrated on the fifth day of the fifth month according to the Chinese calendar. People always eat rice dumplings and watch dragon boat races to celebrate it. The festival is best known for its dragon-boat races, especially in the southern places where there are many rivers and lakes. It’s very popular. The rice dumpling is made of glutinous rice, meat and so on. You can eat different kinds of rice dumplings. They are very delicious. And Dragon Boat Festival is for Qu Yuan. He is an honest minister who is said to have committed by drowning himself in a river. Overall, the Dragon Boat Festival is very interesting! the Middle-Autumn Festival The Middle-Autumn Festival is one of the traditional Chinese festivals, it is often held in September or October. During the festival, family members get united and have moon cakes together. There are various kinds of moon cakes, such as bean paste, egg-yolk or meat. The shape of a moon cake is round as it symbolizes a big moon. Moreover, in the evening of the Middle-Autumn Festival, people get together in a vacant place, eating delicious moon cakes while appreciating the beautiful moon hanging in the dark sky. To conclude, the Middle-Autumn Festival is a very nice festival for Chinese people. Last Qing Ming Festival, I return home to worship my grandfather. Qing Ming Festival is a folk Festival. In the past, In the past, the Qing Ming Festival was called "Arbor Day". But Today, Chinese visit their family graves to tend to any underbrush that has grown. Weeds are pulled, and dirt swept away, and the family will set out offerings of food and spirit money. Unlike the sacrifices at a family's home altar, the offerings at the tomb usually consist of dry, bland food.One theory is that since any number of ghosts roomed around a grave area, the less appealing food will be consumed by the ancestors, and not be plundered by strangers. With the passing of time, this celebration of life became a day to the honor past ancestors. Following folk religion, the Chinese believed that the spirits of deceased ancestors looked after the family. Sacrifices of food and spirit money could keep them happy, and the family would prosper through good harvests and more children. Chinese Spring Festival celebrating the end of winter and the warmth of spring. It began in the last day of the lunar year, ends in the 15th day of lunar New Year, and also is the Lantern Festival. During the Spring Festival, people use red lantern and Spring Festival couplets decorate a house, put on all kinds of colored clothes, often visit friendsand relatives or together eat dumplings, fish, meat and other delicious food. The children are looking forward to receiving red envelope money, and together they play each other the fireworks, with happy. Street with dragonand lion dance and some other carnival activities，CCTV will held the grand Spring Festival gala. Lantern Festival is a China’s traditional festival. It is celebrated on the fifteenth day of the first month of the lunar year.Lantern Festival is one of the biggest holidays in China. Several days before Lantern Festival, people begin to make lanterns. Lanterns are made in the shape of different animals, vegetables, fruits and many, other things. While making lanterns people usually write riddles on lanterns. On the eve of Lantern Festival, all the lanterns are hung up.On Lantern Festival people go outside to have a look at the lanterns and guess the riddles on the lanterns. Perhaps you call see some wonderful folk performances, Dragon Dance and New Younger. Everything is very interesting and everyone is very happy. Our life is rich and varied.
Modern relatively popular Chinese meal etiquette is on traditional mid-north with reference on the basis of foreign manners. Its seating to borrow western dinner party for the law, the right first principal guest sat in the guest host, the second on the right or left in master first principal guest right, flexible processing, wine served on the right by guests, after the Philippines, master, guthrie female guests first, after male guest. Wine, not too full steamy quaver. Serving sequence remains tradition, after first cold heat. The guest of hot food should be the opposite seat left; Single gets or dishes on the table to have the first point and snacks, top whole chicken bingo, whole duck, whole fish, etc, not plastic food toward are emic head and tail. These programs can not only make the whole process, more make a harmonious and orderly subject-object identity and emotional expression and communication. Therefore, table etiquette can make feasts on active complete thoughtful and make the subject-object both sides get all-round display tutelage.
Must wait until all the people here can begin any form of dining activities - even if someone was late, will have to wait. Once you are ready, they can do the host. Opening During dinner, the host must assume a active role - urged guests enjoy eating and drinking is completely reasonable.
On formal banquet dishes on the way, like the projected slides, every time a dish. Surprisingly, rice is not with dishes is alexandrine, but can choose to eat. Because dishes have distinguishing feature each, should individual taste, and only eat once from a bowl, not a mixed taste. Do not use a bowl dish, can eat. Bones and shells class on individual plate. Don't clean dishes must often use clean plate is replaced.
A Chinese restaurant if no tea table and call no formal. Therefore, as storage varieties of tea is wise practices, ensure the most astute taste also care to. Relevant tea problem, should pay attention to several pieces of key things. Seat should be responsible for the recent teapot for others and yourself ZhenCha - according to age, ZhenCha order by the elders to the youth, last pour. When somebody else for you ZhenCha, protocol should use fingers to knock table, doing so is to thank the ZhenCha and respect.
——餐桌礼仪英语作文 (菁华6篇)
Table manners in China Different country have different table manners.The western country is different from eastern country,such as China and France.In China,old people eat first.We aren’t supposed to talk aloud while we are eating.If you don’t want to eat next,you are supposed to say I’m full. And you aren’t supposed to eat fruit at once.Chinese eat food with chopsticks.It is rude if you point at someone with your chopsticks.All of them will be helpful to you.It can make you a polite person.So we must know more about the manners around the world.
Using etiquette
Related to the use of the napkin, everyone must wait after sit down, they can use. After the napkin is spread out, it should be laid flat on your lap. Dont put it in your collar, because the three year old girl may be very cute, but it will be a bit too bad for the thirteen year old.
In addition, the main function of the napkin is to prevent food from dirty clothes, and wipe off the oil stains on the lips and hands. Please dont wipe your nose when you forget to bring tissue, because it is neither elegant nor sanitary.
Some people may worry about the sanitation of the tableware, so it is very impolite to use the napkin to wipe the tableware, which can cause the embarrassment of the restaurant or the host. After you have finished eating, you should fold your napkin and put it on the table before you leave.
In the order of the use of knives and forks in Western food, the principle is from outside to inside. First use the cutlery placed on the outermost side of the dinner plate, and use a knife and fork after each meal. After eating, the knife and fork sit side by side in the middle of the plate, and the waiter will take the initiative to take the plate away. Besides being used for cutting food, dishes are also used to move food, because it is impolite to turn plates on formal occasions.
Of course, chopsticks instead the main difference on the Chinese dinner table isof knife and fork, but thats only superficial. Besides, in decent restaurants, you can always ask for a pair of knife and fork, if you find the chopsticks not helpful enough.
The real difference is that in the West, you have your own plate of food, while in China the dishes are placed on the table and everyone shares. If you are being treated to a formal dinner and particularly if the host thinks youre in the country for the first time, he will do the best to give you a taste of many different types of dishes.
The meal usually begins with a set of at least four cold dishes, to be followed by the main courses of hot meat and vegetable dishes. Soup then will be served (unless in Guangdong style restaurants) to be followed by staple food ranging from rice, noodles to dumplings.
If you wish to have your rice to go with other dishes, you should say so in good time, for most of the Chinese choose to have the staple food at last or have none of them at all.
Perhaps one of the things that surprises a Western visitor most is that some of the Chinese hosts like to put food into the plates of their guests. In formal dinners, there are always "public" chopsticks and spoons for this purpose, but some hosts may use their own chopsticks. This is a sign of genuine friendship and politeness. It is always polite to eat the food. If you do not eat it, just leave the food in the plate.
People in China tend to over-order food, for they will find it embarrassing if all the food is consumed. When you have had enough, just say so. Or you will always overeat!
The main difference between Chinese and western eating habits lies in that dishes in China are placed on the table for everybody to share, while everyone has their own plate of food in the West.Chinese table manners are the traditional eating styles of Chinese people.There are many table manners that one must pay attention to, which date from the time of ancient China,such as how to place the cutlery,how to sit in a banquet,and so on.
Under normal conditions，honorable people should take the seats of honor,and humbler ones then sit down according to their status; the elders,scats face the best direction.
【参考译文】
中西方饮食*惯的'主要区别在于:*把菜肴放在桌上大家共享，西方则每个人都有自己的食盘。*的餐桌礼仪是指*人的传统用餐方式。自*古代起，就有许多人们必须注意的餐桌礼仪，比如餐具(cutlery)如何摆放，如何在宴会上落座等。
通常情况下，尊贵的人应坐尊位(seat of honor)，地位较低的人根据各自地位高低相应落座;长者座位的朝向。
Of course, chopsticks instead the main difference on the Chinese dinner table isof knife and fork, but that's only superficial. Besides, in decent restaurants, you can always ask for a pair of knife and fork, if you find the chopsticks not helpful enough.
The real difference is that in the West, you have your own plate of food, while in China the dishes are placed on the table and everyone shares. If you are being treated to a formal dinner and particularly if the host thinks you're in the country for the first time, he will do the best to give you a taste of many different types of dishes.
The meal usually begins with a set of at least four cold dishes, to be followed by the main courses of hot meat and vegetable dishes. Soup then will be served (unless in Guangdong style restaurants) to be followed by staple food ranging from rice, noodles to dumplings.
If you wish to have your rice to go with other dishes, you should say so in good time, for most of the Chinese choose to have the staple food at last or have none of them at all.
Perhaps one of the things that surprises a Western visitor most is that some of the Chinese hosts like to put food into the plates of their guests. In formal dinners, there are always "public" chopsticks and spoons for this purpose, but some hosts may use their own chopsticks. This is a sign of genuine friendship and politeness. It is always polite to eat the food. If you do not eat it, just leave the food in the plate.
People in China tend to over-order food, for they will find it embarrassing if all the food is consumed. When you have had enough, just say so. Or you will always overeat!
当然，筷子在*餐桌上的主要区别是刀叉，但那只是表面的。此外，在体面的餐馆里，如果你发现筷子还不够用，你还可以要求用刀叉。
真正的不同之处在于，在西方，你有自己的一盘食物，而在*，盘子被放在桌子上，每个人都分享。如果你正在接受一顿正式的晚餐，特别是如果主人认为你第一次来到这个国家，他会尽最大努力让你尝尝各种不同的菜肴。
这顿饭通常以一组至少四道凉菜开始，接着是主要的热肉和蔬菜菜肴。然后，汤将被供应(除非在广东风味餐厅)，然后是主食，从米饭、面条到饺子。
如果你想让米饭和其他菜一起吃，你应该在适当的时候说，因为大多数*人选择最后吃主食，或者根本没有吃。
也许最让西方游客感到惊讶的是，一些*主人喜欢把食物放进客人的盘子里。在正式的晚宴上，总是有“公共”的筷子和勺子，但有些主人可能会使用自己的筷子。这是真正的友谊和礼貌的标志。吃东西总是有礼貌的。如果你不吃它，就把食物放在盘子里。
在*，人们往往会吃太多的食物，因为如果所有的食物都被吃掉，他们会觉得很尴尬。当你受够了，就这么说。或者你总是吃得过多!
If a banquet is held in the host's position, the host and hostess should sit in the middle of the long table and sit face to face. As the owner you want to invite all the guests to sit down one by one, and on the invitation order seated, the first arrangement should be seated VIP position in the male companion, the owner of the right hand side, sitting in the VIP hostess right.
If there is no particular difference between the subject and the object, unless the elders present, they must be courteous, otherwise the ladies can be generous to advance into the seat, a polite gentleman should also be other girls after sit down, then sit in.
When you go out to eat, you can't avoid carrying bags. You should put the bag between the back and the back of the chair, instead of just putting it on the table or on the floor. After sit down to maintain the correct posture, but also do not have to like a stiff wood, and keep the proper distance with the table.
Have to leave in the middle of the table, with people say hello is absolutely necessary, but also men should stand up to show politeness, even if the seat is left by the elder or lady must also help tractor seat.
After the meal is completed, must master of men and women left, other people can start off.
——求职的礼仪 (菁华3篇)
第一、精神面貌。面试的时候你的仪态和精神面貌是无论如何都要注意的，假如你萎靡不振，必然给与考官的第一印象会大打折扣。我们需要做到的是自信，抬头挺胸坐直，准确并且语速适中地去回答考官所提出的问题，声音洪亮，体现出个人的精气神。
第二、着装整洁。干净大体的着装，彰显出个人对于面试的态度，也体现出了对于考官的尊重。考生可以提前4-10天理发，之前不经常穿正装的考生也可以提前适应着装。
第三、配饰。女生所佩戴的饰品不宜过多，一条简单得体的项链就可以了。男生则最多戴一块手表，其余都不需要。妆容上女生化淡妆，男生如果有护肤*惯的话只需要抹一些基本的护肤产品。
第四、进场。进场我们一般需要礼节性的给考官问好，站在自己考桌边，眼睛直视考官，然后自然的给考官鞠个躬，同时说句“各位考官好，我是XX号考生”，然后面带微笑目视主考官。这时候考官会对你说，“请坐”，你说声：“谢谢”坐下即可。
第五、视线。你视线的方向可以显示出你是否自信，是否紧张。我们在实际的考试中要始终保持和考官的眼神交流，包括进入考场在桌子边打招呼时，坐下答题时，面试结束时。如果眼神的直接交流会让你紧张，不妨看着考官的头顶或鼻梁的位置，也会给被注视者同样的感觉。
第六、不要有小动作。人在紧张时，就不会自然的有一些*惯性动作，如转笔等。所以在面试过程中，手上不要拿笔，在用笔记录完必要内容之后，一定要合上笔帽把笔放下。
第七、把握临场反应机会。在考试过程中有很多的考生会听到现场有计时员说：“请考生注意答题时间还有XX分钟”这样的一句话，此时很多考生会很慌张，从而加快自己的答题速度。其实遇到时间提醒时最应该做的就是停下答题，深吸一口气，对提醒你的工作人员，说一声：“谢谢”，这样一方面调整了自己的心态，另一方面也体现出了个人的修养。
在应对面试中，每一个细节都至关重要，我们要做好精心的准备，在礼仪方面做到万无一失，以一个饱满的热情和精神状态去迎接面试官们。这样更能给考官留下好的印象，增加你的就职机会。
【男生篇】
领带：领带的色调、图案如何配合衬衣和西装是一门很大的学问，也与个人的品位有关，同学们*时应该多注意观察成功人士、知名公司领导人的着装，看看他们如何选择领带，同时大家也可以将各自的心得体会多交流交流。但是有一点需要特别指出，不要使用领带夹。因为使用领带夹只是亚洲少数国家的*惯，具有很强的地区色彩，并非国际通行的惯例。至于领带的长短，以刚刚超过腰际皮带为好。
裤子：裤子除了要与上身西装保持色调一致以外，还应该注意不要太窄，要保留有一定的宽松度，也不要太短，以恰好可以盖住皮鞋的鞋面为好。同时，千万记住不要穿背带裤，年轻人穿背带裤是很幼稚、很高傲的表现。另外，运动裤、牛仔裤无论是什么名牌，都不是正装，不适宜在面试的时候穿着。
皮带：颜色以黑色为最好，皮带头不宜过大、过亮，也不要有很多的花纹和图案。
袜子：袜子以深色为好，但*时经常见到一些人穿白袜子，这在国际商务着装中不会出现。深色的袜子应该没有明显的图案、花纹，另外，也不应该穿较透明的丝袜。
皮鞋：黑而不脏、亮而不新。皮鞋的颜色要选黑色，这与白衬衣、深色西装一样属于最稳重、保险的色调。要注意经常擦鞋，保持鞋面的清洁光亮。有的同学尽管买的皮鞋很好，但不注意擦拭，面试的时候皮鞋看上去灰头土脸的，与上面笔挺的西装很不协调，这会让招聘经理觉得应聘者粗心大意。另外还需要注意的是，千万不要把新皮鞋留到面试那天才穿，因为新皮鞋第一次穿会很不合脚，走起路来一瘸一拐的，会让人误认为你有腿疾。
公文包：男生随身携带不装电脑的电脑包是再合适不过的了，但是注意电脑包不要过大。如不使用电脑也不必把电脑放到包里一起带着，背着沉重的电脑，整个人都会显得不灵活，不精干。多年前曾经时兴一种四角长方的公文皮箱，现在这种皮箱已经过时，不要再用了。同样不要用那种非常正式的公文包，那种公文包一般都是老板、经理们使用的，面试的同学使用会显得过于“少年早熟”，不合身份。
【女生篇】
套装：相比之下，女生的服装比较灵活，每位女生应准备一至两套较正规的套服，以备去不同单位面试之需。尽可独树一帜，穿出自己的风格，突出个人的气质，强调个人的魅力。参考的法则是，针对不同背景的用人单位选择适合的套装，必须与准上班族的身份相符，要以内在素质取胜，先从严肃的服装入手。不管什么年龄，剪裁得体的西装套裙，色彩相宜的衬衫和半截裙使人显得稳重、自信、大方、干练，给人“信得过”的印象。裙子长度应在膝盖左右或以下，太短有失庄重。服装颜色以淡雅或同色系的搭配为宜，穿着应有职业女性的气息。虽然服装潮流应在首选之列，颜色鲜艳的服饰会使人显得活泼、有朝气，但T恤衫、 迷你裙、牛仔裤、紧身裤、宽松服、高跟拖鞋等，虽然在街面上铺天盖地，确应列为面试的编外服装，以免给招考官留下太随便的印象。
鞋子：中高跟皮鞋使你步履坚定从容，带给你一分职业妇女的气质，很适合在求职面试时穿着。相比之下，穿高跟鞋显得步态不稳，穿*跟鞋显得步态拖拉;如穿中、高统靴子，裙摆下沿应盖住靴口，以保持形体垂直线条的流畅。同样，裙摆应盖过长筒丝袜袜口。夏日最好不要穿露出脚趾的凉鞋，或光脚穿凉鞋，更不宜将脚趾甲涂抹成红色或其他颜色。
袜子：穿裙装袜子很重要，丝袜以肉色为雅致。拉得不直和不正的丝袜缝，会给人很邋遢的感觉。
装饰品： 当今是一个追求和谐美的时代，适当地搭配一些饰品无疑会使你的形象锦上添花，但搭配饰品也应讲求少而精，一条丝巾，一枚胸花，一条项链，就能恰到好处地体现你的气质和神韵。应避免佩戴过多、过于夸张或有碍工作的饰物，让饰品真正有画龙点睛之妙。否则，容易分散考官的注意力，有时也会给考官留下不成熟的印象。
皮包：大大方方背在肩上，不要过于精美，太珠光宝气，但也不要太破旧，有脏点。
妆容：女生可以适当地化点淡妆，使你更显亮丽。用薄而透明的粉底营造健康的肤色，用浅色口红增加自然美感，用棕色眉笔调整眉形，用睫毛膏让眼睛更加有神。但不能浓妆艳抹，过于妖娆，香气扑鼻，过分夸张，不符合大学生的形象与身份。越淡雅自然、不露痕迹越好，切记一定不要将清纯美掩盖掉。
发型：不管长发还是短发，一定洗得干净、梳得整齐，增添青春的活力。发型可根据衣服正确搭配，要善于利用视觉错觉来改变脸形，如脸型过长的人，可留较长的前刘海，并且尽量使两侧头发蓬松，这样长脸看起来不太明显;脖颈过短的人，则可选择干净利落的短发来拉长脖子的视觉长度;脸型太圆或者太方的人，一般不适合留齐耳的发型，也不适合中分头路，应该适当增加头顶的发量，使额头部分显得饱满，在视觉上减弱下半部分脸型的宽度。根据应聘的不同职业，发型也应有所差异。
提示：服装及饰品是求职者留给面试考官的第一印象，得体的穿着打扮能使其为你加分，也会增加自信，在面试中发挥更好。要达到这个目的，需要研究着装风格，注意细节修饰。
礼仪——前
1）准时赴约。一般要提前到达，不要迟到，更不要让招聘人员长时间等候，以表示求职的诚意，给对方以信任感。同时也可以利用这段时间，熟悉公司环境，整理一下自己的仪容，以及*复心情准备面试。但过早到达也不太合适，一般比原订时间早5至10分钟到达面试地点较好。
2）对接待人员也要以礼相待。礼貌对待身边的每一个人，既表达了你良好的态度，同时尊重别人也是职场中必备的修养。
3）等候面试时的坐姿不要松懈，尽量不玩手机。多位面试者一起等候时，这一点尤为重要。要知道，你的一举一动都有可能被hr看在眼里，从而影响对你的第一印象哦~
1.坐姿包括坐姿和坐定的姿势。如果面试官让你坐下，你不用故意客套地说：您先坐。神态保持大方得体即可。入座时要轻而缓，不要发出任何嘈杂的声音。 面试过程中，身体不要随意扭动，双手不应有多余的动作，双腿不可反复抖动，这些都是缺乏教养和傲慢的表现。有些人因为紧张，无意识地用手摸头发、耳朵、甚至捂嘴说话，虽然你是无心的，但面试官可能会因此而认为你没有用心交谈，还会怀疑你话语的真实性。
2.不同性别，对于面试就座时的礼仪要求也不同。男性就座时，双脚踏地，双膝之间至少要有一拳的距离，双手可分别放在左右膝盖之上，若是面试穿着较正式的西装，应解开上衣纽扣。
3.女性在面试入座时，双腿并拢并斜放一侧，双脚可稍有前后之差，如果两腿斜向左方，则右脚放在左脚之后;如果两腿斜向右方，则左脚放置右脚之后。这样对 方从正面看双脚是交成一点的，腿部线条更显修长，也显得颇为娴雅。若女性穿着套裙，入座前应收拢裙边再就坐，坐下后，上身挺直，头部端正，目光*视面试 官。坐稳后，身子一般占座位的2/3，两手掌心向下，自然放在两腿上，两脚自然放好，两膝并拢，面带微笑保持自然放松。
礼仪——中
1）进入面试室时要先敲门，等到室内传来回应声才能进入，切忌冒失入内。当然，敲门的力度也要适中~
2）如果hr没有为你指定座位，可以选择其对面的位子坐下。注意坐姿的优美与精神，坐椅子时，最好只坐2/3，上身要挺拔，可以稍稍前倾。女生两腿并拢，男生两腿可以稍微分开，但是不要跷二郎腿。说话时双手不要有多余的动作，腿部不要晃动。
3）很多同学在初次面试时，不知道该如何称呼面试官。在打招呼时主动询问也是一个好办法~
4）面试时要保持与考官的眼神交流，且眼神自然，不宜一直紧盯或眼神涣散，更不能在主试人身上扫视、上下打量，以传达你对别人的诚意和尊重。
5）控制说话的语速，应保持音调*稳，音量适中，回答简练，不带无关紧要的*惯语。这一点容易被大家忽略，建议同学们在日常生活中有意识地练*。
5）群体面试中，注意给予其他面试者足够的尊重，适时赞美。这是展示你修养的机会，同时也是帮助你脱颖而出的一个小技巧~
礼仪——后
1）有些面试官以起身表示谈话的结束，另一些人则用“同你谈话我感到很愉快”这样的辞令来结束谈话。对此，要及时起身告辞。
2）告辞时应同面试官握手，并将椅子放回原位，然后面带微笑地向面试官致谢，稳步走出，保持风度。
3）面试结束后，不要急于询问结果或自己的表现，可在后期通过电话、邮件等方式礼貌询问。
1、简介
职场礼仪的基本点非常简单。首先，要弄清职场礼仪与社交礼仪的差别，职场礼仪没有性别之分。比如，为女士开门这样的“绅士风度”在工作场合是不必要的，这样做甚至有可能冒犯了对方。请记住：工作场所，男女*等。其次，将体谅和尊重别人当作自己的指导原则。尽管这是显而易见的，但在工作场所却常常被忽视了，进行介绍的正确做法是将级别低的人介绍给级别高的人。例如，如果你的首*执行官是琼斯女士，而你要将一位叫做简·史密斯的行政助理介绍给她，正确的方法是“琼斯女士，我想介绍您认识简·史密斯。”如果你在进行介绍时忘记了别人的名字，不要惊慌失措。你可以这样继续进行介绍，“对不起，我一下想不起您的名字了。”与进行弥补性的介绍相比，不进行介绍是更大的失礼。
2、作用
了解、掌握并恰当地应用职场礼仪有助于完善和维护职场人的职业形象，会使你在工作中左右逢源，使你的事业蒸蒸日上，做一个成功职业人。成功的职业生涯并不意味着你要才华横溢，更重要的是在工作中你要有一定的职场技巧，用一种恰当合理方式与人沟通和交流，这样你才能在职场中赢得别人的尊重，才能在职场中获胜。
3、化妆礼仪
化妆可以让女性更具魅力，但不宜浓装艳抹。过度打扮会让人感到做作，过于简单会让人感到随便，总之有一个原则，每天的打扮必须要迎合你当天要会见的人们，符合他们的身份和专业度, 让自己不寒酸掉价。
4、握手礼仪
握手是人与人的身体接触，能够给人留下深刻的印象。当与某人握手感觉不舒服时，我们常常会联想到那个人消极的性格特征。强有力的握手、眼睛直视对方将会搭起积极交流的舞台。女士们请注意：为了避免在介绍时发生误会，在与人打招呼时最好先伸出手。记住，在工作场所男女是*等的。
5、电子礼仪
电子邮件、传真和移动电话在给人们带来方便的同时，也带来了职场礼仪方面的新问题。虽然你有随时找到别人的能力，但这并不意味着你就应当这样做。在许多公司里，电子邮件充斥着笑话、垃圾邮件和私人便条，与工作相关的内容反而不多。请记住，电子邮件是职业信件的一种，而职业信件中是没有不严肃的内容的。
传真应当包括你的联系信息、日期和页数。未经别人允许不要发传真，那样会浪费别人的纸张，占用别人的线路。
手机可能会充当许多人的“救生员”。不幸的是，如果你使用手机，你多半不在办公室，或许在驾车、赶航班或是在干别的什么事情。要清楚这样的事实，打手机找你的人不一定对你正在干的事情感兴趣。
6、名片
——礼仪礼节的作文 (菁华3篇)
我是个懂礼貌、讲文明的人，谁见了我都会说：“哎呀，这孩子好懂礼貌啊！”可是谁又知道，我原本也是一个不是很注重礼仪、礼节的人，却因为一件事情改变了我。
以前，我很懒，不爱收拾房间，房间里这儿是书，那儿是衣服，简直乱了套。我也不是很注重衣着讲究，只要能穿就行，随便找一件衣服套上就出门。言行方面，我也不太注重，遇见老师同学，我也不怎么和他们打招呼。我还是个大大咧咧的人，一点都不循规蹈矩，在公共场合，用妈妈的'话来说就是：不知天高地厚，一点也没有女孩子应有的矜持。一天下来，我脸上到处是污点，衣服脏乱不堪，还掉了一颗扣子，妈妈说我是只“小花猫”。老师和家长都不止一次的提醒我：“不但学*好，也要注重礼仪礼节。”我却耸耸肩，总是把劝告当成耳边风。可是……
有一次，老师在班上宣布选拔礼仪之星，班上很多同学都被提名了，我满以为我成绩好能选上，可是让我没想到的是——我落选了。下课后，同学们对我指指点点“瞧瞧她，成绩好又怎么样？不注意礼仪，竟然连礼仪之星都评不上！”“就是就是，一天到晚邋遢极了！她要能评上礼仪之星？我看太阳从北边升起来了！”……我心里不服气，可却有口难辩。我暗暗发誓：我一定要改变自己！一定要评上礼仪之星！
回家后，我先把房间收拾了，先整理书架，将书按一定顺序和规律排好，“咳咳，好多灰！”我这才发现：书架很久没收拾，上面积了一层厚厚的灰尘。我先将书架擦干净，再将书摆放上去。接着，我将那些脏衣服塞进洗衣机，将整个房间扫了一遍，嫌不够干净，再拖了一遍，总算把房间收拾干净了，我望望整洁的房间，再看看满身灰尘的我，不禁“扑哧”一声笑出来，连忙去洗澡。洗过澡后，看着干干净净的自己和房间，心里暗暗嘀咕道：“其实整洁很好嘛！”第二天去上学，遇到老师，停下脚步，行了个队礼，僵硬地说出：“老师好。”老师向我点点头。我又向前走去，遇到了佳，我微笑着对她说：“嗨，今天怎么样？”佳看着衣着整洁、礼仪规范的我，一脸的不可置信，好半天才说出一句话：“难道今天太阳从西边出来了？”我笑了笑，凑到她耳旁，轻轻对她说：“从今天起，我要改变自己，忘掉原来那个我吧！现在才是真正的我！”说完，我便走向教室，留下佳在那里定住，一脸惊愕。很快，同学们发现我变了，因为那次评选，我彻彻底底变了：仪表整洁了，行为规范了，言行得体了。再也见不到原来那个邋遢的我了。
我变了，彻底变了。在生活中，我处处都注意礼仪。遇上老师，行礼，恭恭敬敬说“老师好”，和同学相遇，也打招呼，问好。遇到陌生人面带微笑，行注目礼。我衣着整洁，注意言行，家里也收拾地干干净净，整整齐齐。在公共场合语言较规范，举止端庄，不大声喧哗、吵闹，用词“您”、“请”、“谢谢”等。果然，在下一次礼仪之星的评选时，我被选上了！
感谢那次评选，因为它让我知道了礼仪的重要。礼仪，值得我们关注；礼仪，值得我们学*。注重礼仪吧，那是给别人看的一份你自己的简历！
我是个懂礼貌、讲文明的人，谁见了我都会说：“哎呀，这孩子好懂礼貌啊！”可是谁又知道，我原本也是一个不是很注重礼仪、礼节的人，却因为一件事情改变了我。
以前，我很懒，不爱收拾房间，房间里这儿是书，那儿是衣服，简直乱了套。我也不是很注重衣着讲究，只要能穿就行，随便找一件衣服套上就出门。言行方面，我也不太注重，遇见老师同学，我也不怎么和他们打招呼。我还是个大大咧咧的人，一点都不循规蹈矩，在公共场合，用妈妈的话来说就是：不知天高地厚，一点也没有女孩子应有的矜持。一天下来，我脸上到处是污点，衣服脏乱不堪，还掉了一颗扣子，妈妈说我是只“小花猫”。老师和家长都不止一次的提醒我：“不但学*好，也要注重礼仪礼节。”我却耸耸肩，总是把劝告当成耳边风。可是……
有一次，老师在班上宣布选拔礼仪之星，班上很多同学都被提名了，我满以为我成绩好能选上，可是让我没想到的是——我落选了。下课后，同学们对我指指点点“瞧瞧她，成绩好又怎么样？不注意礼仪，竟然连礼仪之星都评不上！”“就是就是，一天到晚邋遢极了！她要能评上礼仪之星？我看太阳从北边升起来了！”……我心里不服气，可却有口难辩。我暗暗发誓：我一定要改变自己！一定要评上礼仪之星！
回家后，我先把房间收拾了，先整理书架，将书按一定顺序和规律排好，“咳咳，好多灰！”我这才发现：书架很久没收拾，上面积了一层厚厚的灰尘。我先将书架擦干净，再将书摆放上去。接着，我将那些脏衣服塞进洗衣机，将整个房间扫了一遍，嫌不够干净，再拖了一遍，总算把房间收拾干净了，我望望整洁的房间，再看看满身灰尘的我，不禁“扑哧”一声笑出来，连忙去洗澡。洗过澡后，看着干干净净的自己和房间，心里暗暗嘀咕道：“其实整洁很好嘛！”第二天去上学，遇到老师，停下脚步，行了个队礼，僵硬地说出：“老师好。”老师向我点点头。我又向前走去，遇到了佳，我微笑着对她说：“嗨，今天怎么样？”佳看着衣着整洁、礼仪规范的我，一脸的不可置信，好半天才说出一句话：“难道今天太阳从西边出来了？”我笑了笑，凑到她耳旁，轻轻对她说：“从今天起，我要改变自己，忘掉原来那个我吧！现在才是真正的我！”说完，我便走向教室，留下佳在那里定住，一脸惊愕。很快，同学们发现我变了，因为那次评选，我彻彻底底变了：仪表整洁了，行为规范了，言行得体了。再也见不到原来那个邋遢的我了。
我变了，彻底变了。在生活中，我处处都注意礼仪。遇上老师，行礼，恭恭敬敬说“老师好”，和同学相遇，也打招呼，问好。遇到陌生人面带微笑，行注目礼。我衣着整洁，注意言行，家里也收拾地干干净净，整整齐齐。 在公共场合语言较规范，举止端庄，不大声喧哗、吵闹，用词“您”、“请”、“谢谢”等。果然，在下一次礼仪之星的评选时，我被选上了！
感谢那次评选，因为它让我知道了礼仪的重要。礼仪，值得我们关注；礼仪，值得我们学*。注重礼仪吧，那是给别人看的一份你自己的简历！
*自古以来就有礼仪之邦的美称。泰山封禅，君王亲临山顶，在坛前恭恭敬敬地祭拜皇天上帝。君王在喝下了一杯祭祀用的福酒后，将装有金字玉册和玉牒的两个玉盒子，封存在祭坛石匣中。封禅大礼体现了君主大治天下的决心，表达了君主永葆太*的真诚愿望。这对于礼的讲究，还体现在古代*的很多方面。
可是，随着社会的快速发展，人们不再像古代时以礼仪来约束自己。大街上时常会看到成片的小吃摊摆在人行道上，店主不顾路人的通行一个劲地扯着嗓子叫卖自己的小吃。脚下都是黑黑的油污，人们只顾招揽生意却放下了礼仪，放下了为人处世最基本的操守。我每每看到此番景象，心中总会不由自主地感叹：一个有着上千年历史的文明古国，为什么会随着科技，生产力的进步而走道德的下坡路呢？讲礼仪是*的传统美德，可我在每一天的生活中感受到的是这种文明的.流失，让人心痛地流失。
“最美司机”吴斌在被莫名飞行物砸中，濒临死亡边缘时仍旧从容淡定地将高速行驶的客车缓缓停稳，拉好手刹，打开双闪灯……大难面前，第一个想到的是乘客，*日的礼仪变成了今日的博爱，这不是一个*凡人所能做到的！
礼仪其实与这种博爱一样值得赞颂。在博爱的光环下，人们忽视了日常礼仪的重要性。有次正逢下雨，我搭公交车时看见人们都把雨伞提得低低的，防止伞上的雨水弄湿他人的衣服。很多乘客都把雨伞放在身后，宁可沾湿自己的衣服，也不能给别人添麻烦。
伦敦奥运会上，吊环选手陈一冰以0.1分之差惜败给巴西选手。当众人都为裁判的误判替陈一冰感到惋惜时，陈一冰很有风度地接受了裁判的判罚，并一直满脸微笑地面对观众。英国*广播公司的讲解员这样说道：“陈一冰始终保持迷人的微笑，没有对裁判的打分表现出丝毫的不满，他用金牌的动作获得了银牌。”一个人的礼仪，体现在遭遇不公，却毫不计较，以绅士风度笑脸相迎。这，正是我们要学*的。
礼仪，是一个人综合素质的体现。日常生活中，有礼仪相伴相随，我们的人生才紧弛有度，我们的人生才会充满美好，我们的人生才会活出精彩！
——礼仪高中作文 (菁华3篇)
文明出行，从我做起
我们有缘共同生活在这座美丽的城市——呼和浩特。在这里，有许许多多街道，这一条条大街小巷就是城市的一条条血管，它们是这个城市不可或缺的组成部分。我们每个人都离不开它们，而这一条条血管里流淌的血液就是行走在街道上的各种车辆和行人，所以，道路的畅通是这个城市充满活力的保障。
然而，有多少人却不遵守交通规则，破坏了公共交通的美好呢。
在每天的上下班高峰期，堵车会非常严重，我们骑自行车回家也变得非常困难，因为总有那么几辆几十辆汽车占据了非机动车道，自行车也很难通过。这些车主很显然是违章的，但他们还“神气活现”地拼命按喇叭，好像违章的是那些深受其害的自行车，你说这些司机会是有公共道德的人吗？我看不是。当然也有一些自行车不管不顾地闯红灯，而且大部分是穿着各色校服的中学生。这样不堵才怪呢，走在这样的街道上真让人胆战心惊。
在公交车上，也总有那么一些人为了自己更加舒服，就一改*时尊老爱幼的好*惯，变成了自私自利的自私鬼，他们不仅不让座，甚至看都不看身边的老人孩子们一眼，这难道是有公共道德的体现吗？还有那么一些学生为了能够早一点上车，看到公交车来了，在车还没有停下来的时候就跟着汽车跑，然后使劲往上挤，结果别人只能给他们让道，他们虽然上了车，但是其他乘客呢？安全呢？更有甚者，见到车的后门开着他也往上挤，也许他用的是公交月票，但是到站的人们还能正常下车吗？“勿以恶小而为之”这些学生从小便这样不守规矩，那么当他们长大后，他们会有公共道德吗？虽然，这只是少数人的行为，但也给我们的公共交通带来不文明的一面。
公共交通是一个非常重要的问题，它揭示出了人们在公共道德上丑陋的一面。让我们想想，这世间还有多少“公共道德”可言？公共交通告诉我们答案：因为人们自私的心理，公共道德正在离我们渐行渐远。
只有放弃自私，多为别人想想，我们的'世界才能更加美好。让我们在公共交通上做一个有公共道德的人，率先遵守交通规则，让我们的城市交通早日回归“和谐”！
文明出行，从我做起
我们有缘共同生活在这座美丽的城市——呼和浩特。在这里，有许许多多街道，这一条条大街小巷就是城市的一条条血管，它们是这个城市不可或缺的`组成部分。我们每个人都离不开它们，而这一条条血管里流淌的血液就是行走在街道上的各种车辆和行人，所以，道路的畅通是这个城市充满活力的保障。
然而，有多少人却不遵守交通规则，破坏了公共交通的美好呢。
在每天的上下班高峰期，堵车会非常严重，我们骑自行车回家也变得非常困难，因为总有那么几辆几十辆汽车占据了非机动车道，自行车也很难通过。这些车主很显然是违章的，但他们还“神气活现”地拼命按喇叭，好像违章的是那些深受其害的自行车，你说这些司机会是有公共道德的人吗？我看不是。当然也有一些自行车不管不顾地闯红灯，而且大部分是穿着各色校服的中学生。这样不堵才怪呢，走在这样的街道上真让人胆战心惊。
在公交车上，也总有那么一些人为了自己更加舒服，就一改*时尊老爱幼的好*惯，变成了自私自利的自私鬼，他们不仅不让座，甚至看都不看身边的老人孩子们一眼，这难道是有公共道德的体现吗？还有那么一些学生为了能够早一点上车，看到公交车来了，在车还没有停下来的时候就跟着汽车跑，然后使劲往上挤，结果别人只能给他们让道，他们虽然上了车，但是其他乘客呢？安全呢？更有甚者，见到车的后门开着他也往上挤，也许他用的是公交月票，但是到站的人们还能正常下车吗？“勿以恶小而为之”这些学生从小便这样不守规矩，那么当他们长大后，他们会有公共道德吗？虽然，这只是少数人的行为，但也给我们的公共交通带来不文明的一面。
公共交通是一个非常重要的问题，它揭示出了人们在公共道德上丑陋的一面。让我们想想，这世间还有多少“公共道德”可言？公共交通告诉我们答案：因为人们自私的心理，公共道德正在离我们渐行渐远。
只有放弃自私，多为别人想想，我们的世界才能更加美好。让我们在公共交通上做一个有公共道德的人，率先遵守交通规则，让我们的城市交通早日回归“和谐”！
文明礼仪是什么？文明礼仪是路上相遇时的微笑；是同学有困难时的热情帮助；是*时与人相处时的亲切；是见到师长时的问早问好；是不小心撞到对方时的一声“对不起”；是自觉将垃圾放入垃圾箱的举动；是看到有人随地吐痰时的主动制止……文明礼仪是一种品质，文明是一种修养，文明是一种受人尊敬并被大家广泛推崇的行为。
“文明礼仪从我做起”这句口号，大家都并不陌生，可谁又真正地把它牢记在心，做出真实行动呢！反思我们的生活实际，文明离我们还有一段距离。记得有一次在学校，我们高兴得上完体育课*室，一路上大家说说笑笑，谈论着体育课上的趣事。楼梯上有一张废纸，它躺在那里，没人去动它，它不知被踩了多少次，变得十分脏，整洁的校园仿佛被这张废纸给污染了，可没有人愿意弯下腰，把它捡起来丢进垃圾桶，多么简单的一件事啊！当然，我也看到了，刚想把它捡起来，可又转念一想：“那么多人都看到了，可都没有去捡，我何必多此一举呢？而且被人踩了那么多次，一定有很多细菌，多脏啊！”于是我便不予理睬继续向前走。这时，我旁边的一个女生看到了这张纸，停了下来，我很奇怪。随后，她竟然弯下腰，小心翼翼地把废纸捡了起来。“天哪，多么脏啊，难道她不怕脏吗？”我这样想着“她想干嘛啊？”只见那女生加快了步伐，走到了三楼楼梯旁的垃圾桶前将废纸扔掉了，她拍了拍手，脸上露出了轻松的表情。我惊讶地看着她，问：“你为什么要把废纸捡起来呢？那么多人都没有捡，为什么你要捡，很不卫生的啊！”“呵呵，老师天天教导我们要养成文明礼仪的好*惯，这样做是理所应当的，而且是举手之劳啊。”她微笑着对我解释。听到了这话我羞愧无比。是啊，正如这位女同学所说，养成文明礼仪的好*惯，是人人都应该做到的，文明礼仪从身边做起，从自己做起，从小事做起。
文明的事很容易做到，它却是生活里重要的事，也是最难坚持的事。就让我们从现在做起，从一言一行、一点一滴做起，养成良好的文明*惯，讲文明话，行文明事，做文明人，让文明礼仪之花结出累累硕果！
——礼仪的故事 (菁华3篇)
蔺相如是春秋战国时期赵国的大臣，他很有见识和才能。在“完璧归赵”、“渑池相会”两次外交斗争中，捍卫了赵国的尊严，地位在名将廉颇之上。
这使廉颇很不服气，他对别人说：“我廉颇攻无不克，战无不胜，为赵国立下了赫赫战功。蔺相如但是是凭一张嘴巴，说说而已，有什么了不起，反而爬到我的头上。必须要侮辱他一番。”
蔺相如听说后，尽量不跟廉颇会面，每次出门，避开廉颇，有时甚至装病不去上朝。
有一次蔺相如外出，远远看见廉颇的车马迎面而来，连忙叫车夫绕小路而行。蔺相如手下的人对他这样卑躬让步的作法感到委屈，纷纷要求告辞还乡。蔺相如执意挽留，并耐心地向他们解释说：“诸位认为廉将军和秦王相比，哪个厉害？”众人都说：“当然廉将军不及秦王了。”蔺相如说：“对啦，天下的诸候个个都怕秦王，但是为了赵国，我敢在秦国的朝廷上斥责他，怎样会见到廉将军倒反而害怕了呢？你们的情绪我是理解的，但是，你们想过没有，强大的秦国之所以不敢攻打赵国，就是因为赵国有我和廉将军两人的缘故。如果两虎相斗，势必两败俱伤。我不计个人恩怨，处处让着廉将军，是从国家的利益着想啊。”听了这番话，大家都消了气，打消了告辞还乡的念头，反而更加尊敬蔺相如了。
之后，有人把蔺相如的话告诉了廉颇，廉颇大受感动，惭愧万分，觉得自我心胸竟然如此狭窄，实在对不起蔺相如，决心当面请罪。
一天，他脱下战袍，赤身背着荆条，来到蔺相如的府第，“扑”地跪在地上，老泪纵横，泣不成声地对蔺相如说：“我是一鄙陋的粗人，见识浅薄，气量短小，没想到您对我竟这么宽容超多，我实在无脸见您，请您用力责打我吧！就是把我打死了，也心甘情愿。”蔺相如见到这情景，急忙扶起廉颇，两人紧抱在一齐。
从此两人消除了隔阂，加强了团结，同心协力，保卫赵国，强大的秦国更加不敢轻易地侵犯赵国了。
子曰：君子喻于义，小人喻于利。我叔叔乐于助人、拾金不昧的事迹时常让我感受到中华民族的礼仪美。
星期天，天气晴朗，碧空万顷，叔叔带我去公园玩。在公园，我捡到一个钱包，鼓鼓囊囊的。四下无人，我悄悄打开钱包，里面有好多钱，还有一些卡。我心里暗暗窃喜。“太棒了！坐摩天轮的钱有着落了。”我美滋滋地走到叔叔面前，悄悄地告诉了他这件事。叔叔不作声，静静地听我讲着。
我沉浸在自己的喜悦当中，久久不能*静。忽然，叔叔看到一名男子着急地从远处跑来，四处找寻着什么东西，就赶忙走上前问：“同志，你是在找什么吗？”“我的钱包丢了，里面有我的身份证、银行卡！”“那你叫什么名字？哪里人啊？”“我叫———，土生土长的本地人。”叔叔打开钱包，里面刚好有一张身份证，并且信息完全一致。
叔叔郑重地递上钱包，“你看看，有没有少东西。”那个男子接过钱包，确认没少东西后，非要掏出两张百元钞票表示感谢。王叔叔表情严肃地说：“我们如果想要你的钱，不理会你就好了！”说完，拉着我的手径直走开了。
我既失落又疑惑，问叔叔：“叔叔，那个钱包是我捡到的，去坐摩天轮多好呀！就算把钱包还给失主，人家的一点心意，为什么不能收啊？”
叔叔说：“君子看中的是道义，小人看重的是利益，我们怎么能贪那些小便宜呢？”
是的，我们不该被利益冲昏头脑，让美德蒙尘。我们应该像君子一样胸怀坦荡，让传统更好地传承，让社会风气变得更加美好。
叔叔的话我至今难忘。
*，自古被誉为“礼仪之邦”。而在“礼仪之邦”中有很多的传统礼仪美德，其中我觉得最不可缺少应该是从古代流传至今的一种传统礼仪，叫做“孝敬”。
我相信大家都听说过一句古话，叫“百善孝为先”，它的意思是说一个人先要会孝敬自己的父母，才会去热爱自己的国家。
在古代，汉文帝刘恒就是以仁孝之名闻名以天下，他的母亲卧病三年，每次母亲吃药他都会亲口尝过，确认没事后才给自己的母亲喝，汉文帝在位24年，重德治，兴礼仪。我相信有些人一定看过一则公益广告，一位年轻的女人忙碌了一天家务，晚上打了一盆热水准备给自己的妈妈洗脚，这件事被他年仅五岁的儿子看见了，当女人帮自己妈妈洗好脚回到房间时，瞧见她年幼的儿子端着一盆热水摇摇晃晃地走来，憨憨地说道：“妈妈，您辛苦了，今天我来帮您洗脚。”这种精神是多么可贵啊！而且是发生在一个5岁的小孩身上，更别说是我们这些十几岁的少年身上呢。
晋朝的王祥，早年丧母，继母对他并不慈爱，常在他的父亲面前说他的坏话，导致王祥失去了父爱，继母总是让他去干一些脏活累活，比如打扫猪圈，牛棚等，一年严冬，继母朱氏生病了，请来江湖郎中看病，说是要吃新鲜鲤鱼和黄雀才能好，大冬天的，王祥自己跑出去，用体温化冰，捉鱼。这个举动感动继母，流传千古。后来，王祥改名为孝感。
传统礼仪中“孝敬”只是其中的一种，它还有很多其它种类，我希望大家从我做起，从小做起，带动更多的人们学*礼仪，继承从古到今的优良礼仪美德，因为这些才是“礼仪之邦”的代表。
——中国的礼仪英语作文(5)份
The Dragon Boat Festival, also called the Duanwu Festival, is celebrated on the fifth day of the fifth month according to the Chinese calendar. People always eat rice dumplings and watch dragon boat races to celebrate it. The festival is best known for its dragon-boat races, especially in the southern places where there are many rivers and lakes. It’s very popular. The rice dumpling is made of glutinous rice, meat and so on. You can eat different kinds of rice dumplings. They are very delicious. And Dragon Boat Festival is for Qu Yuan. He is an honest minister who is said to have committed by drowning himself in a river. Overall, the Dragon Boat Festival is very interesting! the Middle-Autumn Festival The Middle-Autumn Festival is one of the traditional Chinese festivals, it is often held in September or October. During the festival, family members get united and have moon cakes together. There are various kinds of moon cakes, such as bean paste, egg-yolk or meat. The shape of a moon cake is round as it symbolizes a big moon. Moreover, in the evening of the Middle-Autumn Festival, people get together in a vacant place, eating delicious moon cakes while appreciating the beautiful moon hanging in the dark sky. To conclude, the Middle-Autumn Festival is a very nice festival for Chinese people. Last Qing Ming Festival, I return home to worship my grandfather. Qing Ming Festival is a folk Festival. In the past, In the past, the Qing Ming Festival was called "Arbor Day".
But Today, Chinese visit their family graves to tend to any underbrush that has grown. Weeds are pulled, and dirt swept away, and the family will set out offerings of food and spirit money. Unlike the sacrifices at a family's home altar, the offerings at the tomb usually consist of dry, bland food.One theory is that since any number of ghosts roomed around a grave area, the less appealing food will be consumed by the ancestors, and not be plundered by strangers. With the passing of time, this celebration of life became a day to the honor past ancestors. Following folk religion, the Chinese believed that the spirits of deceased ancestors looked after the family. Sacrifices of food and spirit money could keep them happy, and the family would prosper through good harvests and more children. Chinese Spring Festival celebrating the end of winter and the warmth of spring. It began in the last day of the lunar year, ends in the 15th day of lunar New Year, and also is the Lantern Festival. During the Spring Festival, people use red lantern and Spring Festival couplets decorate a house, put on all kinds of colored clothes, often visit friendsand relatives or together eat dumplings, fish, meat and other delicious food. The children are looking forward to receiving red envelope money, and together they play each other the fireworks, with happy. Street with dragonand lion dance and some other carnival activities，CCTV will held the grand Spring Festival gala. Lantern Festival is a China’s traditional festival. It is celebrated on the fifteenth day of the first month of the lunar year.Lantern Festival is one of the biggest holidays in China. Several days before Lantern Festival, people begin to make lanterns. Lanterns are made in the shape of different animals, vegetables, fruits and many, other things. While making lanterns people usually write riddles on lanterns. On the eve of Lantern Festival, all the lanterns are hung up.
On Lantern Festival people go outside to have a look at the lanterns and guess the riddles on the lanterns. Perhaps you call see some wonderful folk performances, Dragon Dance and New Younger. Everything is very interesting and everyone is very happy. Our life is rich and varied.
Today is Dragon Boat Festival, the weather is unexpectedly good. Early in the morning, my parents and I went to the spirit lake in high spirits. I have heard that there are dragon-boat RACES here. I look forward to it!
At the linghu pier, I saw wang recalled qian and her mother. They are sorry to tell me that the dragon-boat race has just finished! However, after a while, I hear that there will be another match. Wang and I will play and wait.
After a while, the dragon boat race finally began! At this time, Chen hao yu and his mother, Yang shuyu and her father and mother also like to come. On the calm surface of the lake, two slender dragon boats were lined up, and the boat people were dressed in red and yellow and ready to go. As the referee whistled, two dragon boats scrambled to set out. On the dragon boat, the players shouted slogans, and in line with the drums, they rowed hard, and you chased me. Two beautiful water marks were drawn in the back of the dragon boat, and the scene was spectacular! The audience on the pier cheered for them!
Dear Marc, How are you?
I am very happy that you want to learn about Chinese eating manners. Chopsticks should be used when eating, but you are not allowed to stick in the food and point at any others, because it is very rude. Please try to keep silence when eating, especially when your mouth is filled. You cal hold the bowl to eat, it is very convenient. When eating with friends and relatives, you must toast to those people who are older than you. In China, we also share the food in one meal. Welcome to China oneday, I would take you to feel it instantly.
Your sincerely,
Kai Liu
Throughout most of Chinas long history,the relationships between people were based on carefully prescribed forms of behavior,that is,etiquette.Learning and following etiquette is so important that people are always judged by how closely they follow these rules of behaviors.For those who do not follow those prescribed rules of conduct,they are regarded as uncivilized barbarians.
在中国的历史长河中，人际关系都是依照约定俗成的行为方式来维持的，这种行为就是礼仪。学*和遵循礼仪至关重要，人们总是用遵循行为准则来判断某人。对于那些不遵循特定行为准则的人，人们会认为他们是缺乏文化的野蛮人。
However,as China has been increasingly entangled in the global village,many Chinese people,especially the young,have lost some traditions because of the influences of Western cultures.According to a famous professor,the majority of Chinese college students have not had systematic training on traditional Chinese etiquette. As for me, traditional etiquette should be taught in class.
但是，中国与世界的距离越来越*，由于西方的影响，许多中国人，尤其是年轻人丧失了许多传统。著名教授说，绝大部分的中国学生没有系统地接受过中国传统礼仪的培养。对于我来说，课堂应该教授学生传统礼仪。
Firstly, if college students can receive a systematic education in traditional etiquette in class,they can get more prepared for the future. As is known,college students usually have learnt some traditional etiquette through daily interaction with friends and relatives,but the process is time-consuming. They have to be sensitive enough to observe other peoples behaviors and then know what proper behaviors in different social situations are. Some times the learning process is by trial and error. They can only form right behaviors after breaking the rules of conduct and being corrected by the costly consequence. If they have already taken a systematic etiquette course in college,they can follow proper etiquette and have a more guaranteed future.
首先，如果学生能够在学校接受传统礼仪的系统教育，那么他们就能够很好地迎接未来。众所周知，大学学生通常都是通过与朋友，亲戚的来往来了解传统礼仪的，但是这样的过程是很费时的。他们必须对别人的行为非常敏感才行，然后了解不同社会场合的不同礼仪。有时，这样的学*过程是要通过反复试验的。违反了行为准则之后，他们才能形成正确的准则，然而这样的代价是非常昂贵的。如果他们已经在大学接受了系统的礼仪课程，那么他们就能够遵循适当的礼仪，他们也将有一个美好的未来。
Secondly, as these meticulous rules of conduct have been formed throughout Chinese history,they are unique Chinese characteristics and are inseparable to Chinese culture.With the advent of globalization ,western culture is so influential that many young people often look to Western customs and etiquette as being fashionable. For example, nowadays most young women in China would like to wear western-style white dresses and veils at wedding while traditional Chinese weddings feature red gowns for brides and white is an absolute taboo. In the long term,if the trend to adopt western etiquette can not be curbed,the Chinese generations in the future will lose their cultural identity.
第二，由于这些行为准则是在中国历史的长河中形成的，所以它们是中国所独有的，与中国文化息息相关。随着全球化的到来，西方文化的影响之大，以至于许多年轻人遵从了西方那些充满时尚气息的传统和礼仪。例如。现如今，许多中国的年轻人在婚礼上喜欢穿西式的白色的礼裙和纱巾，然而在中国传统的婚礼上，新娘都会穿红色礼服，白色是绝对禁止的。从长远来看，如果采用西方礼仪的趋势无可挽回，那么未来的中国人将会失去他们的文化认同。
Furthermore, the extinction of Chinese etiquette will be to the detriment of the diversity of global culture. To some extent,the course can serve to arouse college students cultural pride and help to preserve and further develop Chinese culture. In conclusion,taking traditional Chinese etiquette in college will not only make graduates more prepared for their future,but also can constitute an important measure for college students to form Chinese cultural identity and therefore to preserve Chinese tradition and further develop it.
此外，中国礼仪的丢失损害了全球文化的多样性。在某种程度上，这样的课程能够激发学生对文化的骄傲感，并帮助保护，并发展中国文化。结论，在大学教授学生传统礼仪不仅能够让学生了解自己的文化，同时也能够帮助大学生形成文化认同感，这样我们才能保护，并发展文化。
As people respond to incentives, they will change their behaviors if they perceive that costs or benefits change. This principle seems to find wide application in our daily lives. When college graduates learn that receiving a master degree will give them an upper hand in the job market, many decide to take part in post-graduate entrance examinations. In China, it is regarded as following suit. Though we admire those who pride themselves on sticking to their ideals and principles, odds may not be against those who follow suit.Generally speaking, there are both advantages and disadvantages of following suit.
人们在面对诱惑时，尤其是当成本和利益发生变化时，他们的行为也会有所变化。这样的事情会在我们的生活中出现。当大学生发现，获得硕士学位会让他们更容易找工作时，许多人就会决定参加硕士考试。在中国，这就叫做紧追趋势。尽管我们羡慕那些坚持己见的人，但是，那些紧追趋势的人也会交到好运。总体来说，紧追趋势有好有坏。
Firstly, following suit is indicative of the fact that followers have no indispensable beliefs or fixed principles and hence they are flexible in the vicissitudes of lives. When the social context changes and opportunities arise, those followers are the first to respond and make decisions.Take the English training service for example. In early 1990s, increasing number of college graduates decided to study overseas and hence English training service was in large demand.Given that forerunners had make a fortune by providing training programs to those graduates,many businessmen just followed suit and established several training schools. Undoubtedly,those who followed suit when the market did not reach saturation did make money.
首先，紧追趋势表明，人们没有自己的信仰，或是一些规定的准则，所以，他们会时长进行改变。当社会变化，机遇增加时，那些追随者将会首先进行变化，并作出决定。我们以英语培训为例、20世纪90年代初，大量毕业生出国深造，促使英语培训需求量增大。那些为学生提供培训的企业赚到了钱，许多商人紧随其后，建立了许多培训机构。在市场尚未饱和时，那些跟风的商人赚到了钱。
Secondly, it is noteworthy that following suit can avoid making mistakes. For those forerunners, there is no previous information at their hand, and therefore, it will take a longtime to learn and improve by trial and error. During the period of trial and error, forerunners will encounter unexpected difficulties and pressures. As a result, when those become successful in certain domains, they have proved that the path will lead to success, providing both pros and cons. On the contrary, followers need not experience the process of trial and error. They can just imitate their forerunners proven pattern of behaviors and have easier access to success.There are also some disadvantages of following suit. When there are so many followers, the world will become crowded and odds are against those later followers.
第二，跟风可以避免犯错误。对于那些先驱者，他们并不拥有所需要的信息，所以，他们需要更长的时间来学*，并在实践过程中不断进步。在实践的过程中，先驱者会遇到许多不可预期的困难和压力。所以，当他们在某一领域取得成功时，他们已经证明这条道路是成功的，他们向人们提供了优点和缺点。相反，跟随者并没有经历过实践的过程。他们只是模仿先驱者所证明过的道路，并很容易的取得了成功。但是，跟风也会有许多弊端。当追随者的人数过多时，他们失败的几率也会增加。
Furthermore, following suit prevents innovation and creation, which is to the detriment of our society. However, whether one should follow suit or not is not sim*** a to-be-or-not-to-be question. A basic assumption of individual person is that everyone is rational. So one should carefully calculate costs and benefits in specific circumstances before they decide to follow suit or not.
而且，跟风阻止了创新和发明，这对于社会是不利的。但是，人们是否应该跟风不仅仅是一个是或否的问题。每个人都应该是理性的。所以，人们应该根据不同的情况来计算效率和成本，之后，人们才应该决定是否应该跟风。
There will be a speech on our school playground this Saturday afternoon, whose theme is “To civilize schoolyard is my responsibility”.
All the teachers and students are required to attend. In the activity, the first two winners in each grade will give such valuable advice as follows: we should not litter anywhere in order to keep our campus clean; we should love flowers, grass and trees so that everyone can enjoy the greenness; we should behave well instead of running after one another, quarreling and fighting noisily; we should care for others so that our school will be full of love. We believe our school will become more and more beautiful and peaceful.
一个星期六下午，在我们学校操场上有个演讲，其主题是“文明的校园是我的责任”。所有的老师和学生都必须参加。
在活动中，每个年级的第一个获奖者将给予宝贵的意见如下：我们不应该乱扔垃圾，保持校园清洁;我们应该爱花，草和树让每个人都能享受到绿色;我们应该表现好而不是追逐，争吵，打闹;我们应该关心别人，我们的学校将会充满爱。我们相信我们的学校也会变得更加美丽和宁静。
