Deng Haotian and I are deskmate,also good friends.In class,we listen together and study together;after class,we often play games and play together.But today,I had a quarrel with him,making a contradiction,what's the matter?
Originally,the English class,the teacher sent a piece of paper,a color sheet,he must now ap*.You don't know,Deng Haotian's love painting,painting,but he didn't bring crayons,he asked in front of the students,and asked the students behind,can not borrow,very worried.He asked me who was reading the book again: "Yan Jiaqi,did you bring colored pencils?"" "Yes,what's wrong?"" I didn't lift my head.And he said,"can you lend me your money?"" I saw him in a hurry and wanted to lend him his pen.But I remembered that once I forgot to bring a colored pen.When I borrowed it from him,he said,"I won't lend it to you."." I was very sad.Today,he asked me to borrow a pen.Can I borrow it?Borrow or not borrow?Borrow or not borrow?" I just broke my brain.Suddenly,I remembered the words "to be magnanimous",and I wanted to borrow it,but I said I didn't borrow it.He said angrily,"I won't play with you later."." I'm not happy,remarking: "don't play not to play!" A good friend suddenly becomes a little friend,who ignores whom.
After a day,I want to make peace with Deng Haotian,and want to play with him,but I did not think he ignored me.After a day,I wanted to apologize to him,but I was sorry,but it went back,and I couldn't say anything about it.I was worried.After returning home,I told my father about it.My father told me,"to be magnanimous,to learn to be tolerant and modest." I'll keep that in mind.On the second day,I made an apology to Deng Haotian and said solemnly,"Deng Haotian,I'm sorry,let's make up!" Deng Haotian accepted my apology,and we made up.
Now we don't fight and make a difference.We learn together and play together as before.We will always be a good deskmate and good friend.
Recently,the children's palace opening,many parents are busy to help children to sign up,my mom and dad are no exception,see,they urged me in!To tell the truth,I don't want to sign up,usually in the school have so much homework,back home but also accept bombing tanks,fighter (the truth assignments with the parents almost),if Saturday,Sunday but also to those boring classes,oh,oh!It is because of this,my father and mother contradiction and upgrade again and again.
Look,dad and mom took turns red black persuasion,listen to what they say,"well,you see,my son went on,you don't go back to a lot!" "That is,my mother let you go to the English class,but also for you,now English is very important,have to consolidate it."!That math class is also very good,there is also the Olympic Mathematics Project,you have to learn more!As the saying goes: "energy-saving,white square regret later reading." You are now the golden age of learning,learning a bit of knowledge,but also for the future!"
Look,don't understand how *s mouth so badly,but I'm not saying it,saying that under the circumstances,I resorted to special skills,just don't agree,I don't see my parents eat soft,gentle to take off the mask,exposing the evil face (as if too exaggerated,hey),sealed a TV,com*r,refrigerator,pantry,kitchen cabinets,even with a seal.
My God,my life is so bitter!Wouldn't it be so hard to give a little alms?!Helpless,I had to carry the book,book,work overtime to go to cram school.
When I see those small children,carrying with,carrying a variety of learning activities,go regardless of the weather in various internship class,and can not help but sigh: now children,really tired!
Aman ofthe state of Chu had a spear and a shield for sale.He was praising his shield.
"My shield is so strong that nothing can pierce it through."
He also sang praises of his spear.
"My spear is so strong that it can pierce through anything."
"What would happen," he was asked,"if your spear is used to pierce your shield?"
He was unable to give an answer.
It is impossible for the strongest shield to coexist with a spear that finds nothing impenetrable.
With the development of society,English plays a more and more important role in the modern world.So most people think it is very important to learn English.For one thing,they can go abroad to study if they are good at English.For another,with the good use of English,they can get a better job than those who don’t know English.What’s more,if they have a good sense of English,they can enjoy their lives much more fortable.For exam,they can enjoy the foreign movies,music and so on.Also,with the use of English,they can municate with the foreigners so that they can learn many different cultures and customs from them.
However,every coin has two sides.Some other people think there’s no use for them to learn English.In their opinions,it is good enough to learn our mother language Chinese;secondly,the chances to go abroad or municate with foreigners are hopeless.In a word,they think learning English is no use.
In my opinion,different people have different ideas.But we can’t ignore the importance of learning English.With the development of the world fashion,English is more and more useful in our lives,so we should make full use of our time to study English so that we can make contributions for our country.
When you have quarrels with your parents,the best way for you to appease the situation is to force yourself to concede.Parents have undergone far more experiences in life than you do;therefore,it is invariably the case that you are the one who turns out to be wrong.
Bravely admit your faults and actively pursue ways to harmonize the atmosphere,and all the family members will live together in harmony again.
——化解矛盾的英语作文6篇
I had a lot of things with my parents,happy,sad,sad,angry and so on.But my parents and I have had the most serious conflicts with their parents.
My parents always think of me as a child will never grow up,no matter what I want to do seems to have after they had agreed to do,if I do not go according to their intention to do so,they will say that I was rebellious,and I speak very tired.
Once,I went to a classmate's home to play,and parents say,lunch time,I have not come back,my parents have always come back,but to the 3 in the afternoon,I did not come back,they worry,I fear that what happened,then like ants on a hot pan - round and round,at home no longer sit still,looking for me.When I came back,I started to see mom and dad very pleased,but after nearly 1 minutes of time,like a face like,became angry and said: "how do you come back now,you know how much we worry?" "I'm not going out for a while,didn't I tell you,as to really angry?"." I said."Why not?" Dad said."Do you know how worried we are?How can you do that?"!"."That's what I'm saying.You can't manage it,huh?"!" And then I went back to my room.
I was in the room that has been in the memory of mom and dad to take care of me,and I together happy life,I just think of mom and dad said,I feel very guilty,I would like to apologize for mom and dad.
When I was having dinner,I came out of the room with guilt,walked up to my father and mother,and said,"sorry,mom and Dad,I'm wrong.I should tell you when I went out."" Mother touched my head and said,"it doesn't matter.It's good to know what's wrong.I know it's time to change.Don't have the next time."." "Well,there's no next time."." I said happily.
Also from this,I began to understand the understanding of parents.
今天，我和我的朋友赵董睿因为一点小事儿吵架。
Today,my friend Zhao Dongrui and I quarreled because of a little incident.
赵董睿说，我说他没有下水。我说：“是建一先说的。”赵董睿说：“明明是你先说的。”我说：“没有。”我们争论不休。
I said he didn't go into the water.I said,"it was Jian Yi who said it first." "You said it first," Zhao said I said,"No." We argued endlessly.
然后，妈妈们说：“你们忘了你们是好兄弟，好兄弟应该相亲相爱。”
Then,the mothers said,"you forget that you are good brothers.Good brothers should love each other."
最后，我们彼此拥抱握了握了手。
Finally,we hugged and shook hands.
最*，我们班上很流行看一部动画片，名叫《梦想三国》，一下课，班上就成了少林寺，个个都在打，嘴里还念念有词，喊着什么青龙斗魂斩，白虎穿山钻反正，个个都像成了斗鸡，当然，我和我的好朋友梁中奇、邰长恺也不例外。
Recently,our class is very popular to watch an animated film called dream of Three Kingdoms.After class,the class becomes Shaolin Temple.Everyone is fighting.They are still chanting words in their mouths.They are shouting green dragon fighting soul cutting,white tiger piercing mountain drill Anyway,everyone is like a cockfight.Of course,my good friends Liang Zhongqi and Tai changkai are no exception.
叮铃铃下课了，我们立即分好了各自的角色，就开始了这场战争，我们一边打一边走，不知不觉的就来到了厕所，当时，我正好要小便，就在我走进厕所的一瞬间，梁中奇的心中产生了恶作剧的小火花，那时小便池旁人太多了，我就到大便的地方小便，当我把门关好的时候，梁中奇把门拉开，对着我皮笑肉不笑，我立刻把门拉了起来，可是梁中奇再一次向我发起了进攻，就在那一刻，不幸的事情发生了，我的手指被梁中奇划伤了，划出了一道一厘米长的伤痕，红红的鲜血正不停的往外流淌，一到班上，同学们知道了这件事，都跟我嘘寒问暖，那时，我体会到了朋友的温暖。
Tinkling bell After class,we immediately divided our roles and started the war.As we fought and walked,we came to the toilet unconsciously.At that time,I was just going to pee.At the moment when I walked into the toilet,Liang Zhongqis heart had a little spark of mischief.At that time,there were too many people around the urinal,so I went to the place where I peed.When I closed the door,I would pee At that time,Liang Zhongqi opened the door and smiled at me.I immediately pulled the door.But Liang Zhongqi once again attacked me.At that moment,unfortunately,my finger was scratched by Liang Zhongqi,which made a one centimeter long scar.The red blood was flowing out.Once in class,the students knew this Things,all with me,at that time,I realized the warmth of friends.
上课的时候，老师把梁中奇严加训斥了一顿，一下课，梁中奇就来找我算账，说：你瞎说，我要和你绝交。他这么一说，也把我说的满肚子都是气，我大声的骂他：你个白眼狼，把上个星期到我家吃的肯德基都给我吐出来。
In class,the teacher gave Liang Zhongqi a severe reprimand.After class,Liang Zhongqi came to me to settle accounts and said,you lie,I want to break up with you.When he said that,he also filled me with anger.I shouted at him,you white eyed wolf,spit out the KFC that came to my house last week.
放学了，回到家，我还在生梁中奇的气，我恨不得梁中奇现在就站在我的面前，给他一个上勾拳和下勾拳，把他打的满地找牙，落花流水。就在这时，叮咚，门铃响了，原来是梁中奇和他爸爸来道歉了，梁中奇说了声：朋友，对不起。我的气一下全消了。我说：没关系，我们还是好朋友。
When I came home from school,I was still angry with Liang Zhongqi.I wish that Liang Zhongqi would stand in front of me now,give him a hook up and a hook down,and beat him to the ground to find his teeth.Just then,dingdong,the doorbell rang.It was Liang Zhongqi and his father who apologized.Liang Zhongqi said,m sorry,friend.All my anger was gone.I said,it doesnt matter.We are still good friends.
朋友之间总会发生一点小矛盾，不过。只要有勇气跟朋友道歉，就可以原谅，继续做好朋友。
There will always be a little conflict between friends,however.As long as you have the courage to apologize to your friends,you can forgive and continue to be good friends.
I have a best friend,we know each other when we are five years old,now we talk about everything.But sometimes we will have the argument,none of us want to give in first.
We make a deal that the next day we will meet in a place every time,so we become good again.I cherish our friendship so much.
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我有一个最好的朋友,我们彼此认识的`时候是在我们五岁的时候,现在我们无所不谈。但有时我们会有争吵,谁也不想先屈服。
我们达成协议,第二天我们会在一个地方见面,这样我们再次和好。我珍惜我们的友谊。
When you have quarrels with your parents,the best way for you to appease the situation is to force yourself to concede.Parents have undergone far more experiences in life than you do;therefore,it is invariably the case that you are the one who turns out to be wrong.
Bravely admit your faults and actively pursue ways to harmonize the atmosphere,and all the family members will live together in harmony again.
The other week I had a bitter quarrel with one of my roommates.Six of us live in small room about eight square meters,desperate for more space.
Weeks ago,one of my roommates brought in a very large suitcase and placed it under her bed,but days later she (he) found something wrong with her (his) suitcase.As we live on the ground floor,her case soon got wet.She took it out and,after drying it up,she/he just put it on her desk because she had no other choices.I happened to be opposite her desk and her suitcase was so large that it not only occupied the whole of her desk but half of mine as well.I was very much annoyed,so I angrily pushed it forward without first talking to her about it.I pushed a bit too hard and the case fell off her desk,messing up everything it contained.On seeing this,she flew into a temper and angrily shouted at me.The quarrel started and lasted about two hours.
When I calmed down days later,I thought over the quarrel and began to see something.I should have talked to her about it first and then worked with her to find a solution to the problem.Living in a room with limited space,we should learn to get on well with one another.
——化解矛盾的英语作文范本5份
I had a big argument with my good friend yesterday because of the baseball teams.During the break time,we argument about which team is the best in the league big.I thought it is yangqi and he thought it is redsocks.After the argument,he went of to say goodbye to me and close the door loudly.I was so angry with him.
Then he still didnt talk to me during the next break time.He didnt even look at me.I started to feel sad because he is my best friend.When it was time to go home I asked him if he wanted to go with me as usual.He looked at me with a strange look and still turned away.But this time,he did say goodbye to me quietly.
In the end,while I was watching TV the phone ring.It was him and he said he was sorry about what he did,he felt childish.I said never mind we are still good friends.Now I feel much better I hope we wont argument any more.
今天晚上我回到家妈妈让我吃方便面，但我不想吃，妈妈就把我骂了一遍，我很不高兴。
My mother told me to eat instant noodles when I came home tonight,but I didn't want to eat instant noodles.My mother scolded me once,and I was very unhappy.
因为爸爸要去吃*，妈妈不吃饭只有我吃饭，但我不想吃就和妈妈吵了起来。最后我还是吃了方便面。
Because my father is going to eat,I'm the only one who doesn't eat,but I quarreled with my mother if I don't want to.At last I ate instant noodles.
但我心里不甘心。
But my heart is not willing.
Recently,the children's palace opening,many parents are busy to help children to sign up,my mom and dad are no exception,see,they urged me in!To tell the truth,I don't want to sign up,usually in the school have so much homework,back home but also accept bombing tanks,fighter (the truth assignments with the parents almost),if Saturday,Sunday but also to those boring classes,oh,oh!It is because of this,my father and mother contradiction and upgrade again and again.
Look,dad and mom took turns red black persuasion,listen to what they say,"well,you see,my son went on,you don't go back to a lot!" "That is,my mother let you go to the English class,but also for you,now English is very important,have to consolidate it."!That math class is also very good,there is also the Olympic Mathematics Project,you have to learn more!As the saying goes: "energy-saving,white square regret later reading." You are now the golden age of learning,learning a bit of knowledge,but also for the future!"
Look,don't understand how adults mouth so badly,but I'm not saying it,saying that under the circumstances,I resorted to special skills,just don't agree,I don't see my parents eat soft,gentle to take off the mask,exposing the evil face (as if too exaggerated,hey),sealed a TV,computer,refrigerator,pantry,kitchen cabinets,even with a seal.
My God,my life is so bitter!Wouldn't it be so hard to give a little alms?!Helpless,I had to carry the book,book,work overtime to go to cram school.
When I see those small children,carrying with,carrying a variety of learning activities,go regardless of the weather in various internship class,and can not help but sigh: now children,really tired!
More and more people attach great importance to relationship in career success.Being polite is the first and most important step to develop good relationship among friends.Polite words can be easy yet very powerful in your daily life.
Always saying please and thank you will make your friends more comfortable and more willing to offer help when necessary.We all know that one man’s success is based on how he deals with people.Always be grateful to other people’s kindness and show your gratitude through the words you speak.The more support you win from other people,the faster you will move towards your goal.
Although some people may easily ignore the importance of being polite,we students should form good habits and behave in good manners。First,learn to be friendly to your parents and relatives at home。Then at school，listen respectfully when your teachers instruct you.Follow and accept their advice to improve yourself。You will make further progress if you express your gratitude in time.
Remember,being polite costs nothing but it’s worth millions of dollars.
The other week I had a bitter quarrel with one of my roommates.Six of us live in small room about eight square meters,desperate for more space.
Weeks ago,one of my roommates brought in a very large suitcase and placed it under her bed,but days later she (he) found something wrong with her (his) suitcase.As we live on the ground floor,her case soon got wet.She took it out and,after drying it up,she/he just put it on her desk because she had no other choices.I happened to be opposite her desk and her suitcase was so large that it not only occupied the whole of her desk but half of mine as well.I was very much annoyed,so I angrily pushed it forward without first talking to her about it.I pushed a bit too hard and the case fell off her desk,messing up everything it contained.On seeing this,she flew into a temper and angrily shouted at me.The quarrel started and lasted about two hours.
When I calmed down days later,I thought over the quarrel and began to see something.I should have talked to her about it first and then worked with her to find a solution to the problem.Living in a room with limited space,we should learn to get on well with one another.
——扩写自相矛盾作文 (菁华5篇)
故事发生在宋朝时期的某个村庄，那里人山人海，十分热闹繁华，尤其是这一天……
在集市里，只见一个不高不矮，不胖不瘦的商人在大声嚷嚷，叫卖着他的兵器。他首先拿出一只矛骄傲地说：“这把矛是天底下最厉害，最锐利的矛，大家快来看看啊！”人们被他的叫卖声吸引过来了，都围在一起仔细看这把锐利的矛，只见那只矛尖上闪闪发光，好像天上神仙用的兵器，看得有些人眼睛都闪闪发光。那位商人又得意地说：“这把矛能穿破任何事物，不管多厉害的盾，我也能一下将它刺穿。”有些人没等商人说完，就抢着要买，五千两，七千两，一万两，一万五千两……加价的声音一阵高过一阵，商人心里简直就乐开了花。
但是他又装着很不情愿的样子说：“你们真是没见过世面啊，我还有很多神兵利器呢！”接着，商人又举起一块盾大声介绍到：“我这还有一块盾，这可是神器呀！这块盾坚硬无比，世上的任何事物都不能损它一丝一毫。”又有一些人围着这块盾仔细欣赏起来，盾上刻有一条真龙，有些人看的非常入神，眼球差点都要掉下来了。人们都又来抢着买这块盾，三万五，四万六……的声音又一一传来，商人高兴得都快要死掉了。
这时有一位过路人走上前问：“那麽用你的矛戳你的盾会怎样呢？”热闹的场面一下就安静的出奇，人们用疑惑的眼光看着刚才还神气十足的商人，可是商人听了这句话却哑口无言，满脸通红，本来要买兵器的人纷纷都走了，只剩商人一个人呆呆的站在那里，这时过路人拍拍他的肩说：“以后要老老实实的做生意，别再这样自相矛盾了。”
从此以后，商人改邪归正老老实实的做生意，结果赚了大钱再也没有自相矛盾了。
据说前天在街上靠卖矛又卖盾度日的楚国人在大庭广众之下出了嗅，垂头丧气的回到家里。
妻子见他一脸的不高兴就问他：“你怎么垂头丧气的？是不是今天生意不好矛和盾没卖出去？没关系今天卖不了还有明天呢。”他听了妻子的话心里很不是滋味，对妻子说：“咱们还是改行做别的生意吧！今后咱们的矛和盾恐怕不会有人买了。”听张三这么一说他妻子着急了，赶忙问道：“这到底是怎么回事，你赶紧跟我说清楚，真急死人了。” “今天我去卖矛和盾……”他垂头丧气地把今天在街上卖矛和盾时发生的事情一五一十地向他妻子说了一遍。听完他的叙说，他妻子笑了。张三不解地看着他的妻子问到：“我们的生意都做不成了，你还笑得出来？”妻子指着他的鼻子说：“你这个人怎么这么不过脑子，有你这么为自己的东西作广告的吗？人家问得你哑口无言了吧？”“事情已经这样了你说怎么办”张三无可奈何的说。妻子想了想说：“明天一早你还去买……”妻子的话还没说完，他就抢着说：“什么？明天还去，不是一样卖不出去吗？”“你听我把话说完，明天你当着大家的面，用咱们的矛刺咱们得盾，试验一下到底矛锋利，还是盾结实。试出哪个好后你再夸一夸那个好的。”
那个卖矛和卖盾的人，什么也没有卖出去，回到家里对妻子说：“唉！真倒霉，什么也没卖出去。”妻子问：“为什么？”他说：“不知道。”妻子又说：“那好，你给我说一遍你当时说的话。”他说：“我当时在街上叫卖，还说：‘我的矛锋利得很，无论什么盾都戳得穿。’还说：‘我的盾坚固得很，无论什么矛都戳不穿。’有人问我：‘如果用你的矛戳你的盾，会怎么样呢？’然后我一下子愣住了。”妻子说：“你这不是‘自相矛盾’吗？我觉得你应该先到一个地方卖矛，再到一个地方卖盾。”他照着妻子的话去做，果然取得了重大成功。原本很穷的他们，一下子变得很富有。变富了以后，他想：真不知道如果没有妻子的劝告，我怎么可能会有今天。
第二天，这个人就按照他妻子说的去做了，结果他卖的盾结实，他就向别人介绍自己制造的盾如何结实。大家亲眼看到他的盾确实很结实，又听了他的介绍，不一会儿的功夫他的盾就卖完了。他收拾好东西高高兴兴地回家了。
从此以后他便专门制造盾，生意越做越红火，一家人过上了幸福的生活。
上回说道，那个卖盾和矛的人，因自相矛盾，没有卖出以一个盾和矛。
他回到家后，仔细的思考了思考，想出了一个办法，就是一天卖矛，一天卖盾。第二天，他先去卖矛。他夸赞自己的矛说：“我的矛是世界上最锋利的矛，没有任何一个盾能挡住。”路人听他这么一说，很是激动，这矛这么好啊，能戳穿任何盾。不一会儿，他那个挤了一堆人。一下子他就赚了好几十两银子。
第二天，他又去卖盾。他夸赞自己的盾说：“我的盾非常坚硬，比石头都要坚硬。”这一次，他那里又挤满了一堆人。又赚了好几十两银子。
接下来的几天他一直都很顺利。可是有一天，有个路人问他：“这几天卖矛和卖盾的人都是你，你一天说你的矛最锋利，一天又说你的盾最坚固，那你就用你的矛戳你的盾试试。”那人一听，又慌了，居然还是这个问题？所以他还没有回答上来。之后他的生意又变的不兴隆了。
他又经过一天的思考，最后决定，一直卖矛，不卖盾了。
那个卖矛和盾的人，什么也没有卖出去，回到家后对家里人说：“我什么也没卖出去，一个人问我，我答不上来，就回家了。”家人焦急地说：“哎呀，又失去卖矛、盾的一天，你也不知道家人出主意。这样吧，一天卖一样，这样总会赚到钱的。”那个人半信半疑地点了点头。
第二天，那个人到市场上去卖矛，有很多人买他的矛，他很高兴。
第三天，他又卖盾，又有很多人买他的盾，他的自信心恢复了……
就这样一天天地循环着。终于有一天，他把自己挣的钱加起来，有一大笔钱那么多，他的生活变得富裕起来，也不用哭天喊地地叫卖了，他脸上露出了灿烂的笑容。
自从上次卖兵器的人扛着矛和盾回家后，他就在心里琢磨：我为什么不能先卖一个兵器，然后再卖另一个呢？这样或许卖出的机会要大一些。
于是，第二天，他只拿着盾，但他夸得更厉害了：“这是全宇宙最强大的盾了，用戳破天的矛戳它一下，都得弯了。”有人问：“你不是还卖矛吗？”他回答道：“因为这盾太厉害了，所有的矛都被它抵挡住了，所以我就不做矛，也不卖矛了。”众人听了半信半疑，又看了看他的盾，质量确实不错，都争着要买他的盾，最后他的盾被一位商人出高价买走了。回到家了，卖盾人非常高兴，心想：我过些天换个地方再把矛卖出去就发财了。
过了些日子，他来到另一个集市上，又夸起他的矛来：“我卖得矛是世界上最强大的矛，最强大的盾被它碰一下，就废了。”大家都争先恐后地看他的矛，的确很锋利，都想买他的矛，结果被一位赶考的武举人花高价钱买走了。
从此以后，他以卖兵器为生，过着富足的日子。
——沟通化解矛盾作文范本十份
人的一生少不了沟通，与社会的沟通，与大自然的歌声，与家人的沟通，当然也可以自己和自己沟通。
每一个人都有自己的空间，空间可分大小，有些人把自己封闭在自己的空间里，不愿与外界交流，会被人们认为他们不好交流，或因为他们孤僻，而不愿与他们交流，导致他们越来越孤僻，甚至患有自闭症。可这是他们愿意的吗？不，他们不愿意，他们也希望有朋友的关心，同学的陪伴和社会对他们的.关爱，可是有人在乎过他们的心声吗？
对于喜欢自己和自己沟通的人，不是说他们本就喜欢自己和自己沟通，而是因后天形成的一种自己保护现象。让他们宁愿活在自己的空间，也不愿意与人交流，他们每个人都或多或少受到过伤害。有可能是他们伤害别人，也有可能是别人伤害他们。有身体上、语言上、情感上和网络言论上的伤害……
上帝为你关上一道门，就会为你打开一扇窗，这句话对他们来说，可能他们与这个世界的沟通堵塞了，但或许他们就不会受到沟通所带来的伤害。
我们不能说自己和自己沟通的人是恋爱，我们只是不提倡把自己完全封闭起来，不与外界沟通的人。
对于身边有自己和自己沟通过多的人，我们应该更加关爱他们，让他们愿意走出自己的世界，不再变得只会自己和自己沟通，而是变得会与和世界沟通。
小时候，我们依恋父母。崇拜。青春期后，我们有了自己的思想，开始独立行动，渴望得到父母的“**证书”，渴望父母像对待成年人一样对待我们，甚至挑战他们的权威。在父母眼里，我们永远是没有生活经验，没有丰富经验，却有自己想法的孩子。父母责怪我们越来越不守规矩，越来越不懂事，怀念我们年轻时的美貌。他们对我们的爱没有变，只是更严厉了，难免会被多说几句。不听，就觉得父母在唠叨。啰嗦。结果，我们和父母之间产生了矛盾。
期待成龙。看女人是全世界父母的'共同愿望。我们和父母之间的冲突，往往是基于父母的高期望。要求严格。这种在我们看来有些苛刻的“严格”，体现了父母对我们的爱。我们必须努力去理解父母。
与父母冲突，如果你用强硬的态度反驳他们，用粗暴的行为反抗，或者无视他们。对对方漠不关心是不对的，或者从对某件事的分歧转变为对父母的恶感，甚至采取极端的措施来处理，都会造成很大的伤害。
在家里，父母和我们之间有矛盾，有代沟，不可否认，不可忽视，不可夸大。积极的方式是搭建沟通的桥梁。沟通是双方的事。作为孩子，要走*父母，亲*父母，努力跨越代沟，与父母携手同行。
在家庭交往中，不必太在意父母。即使父母错了，也要多原谅，不用和父母较劲。有时候即使赢了，也未必能给自己带来快乐，给家人带来幸福。如果我们承认错误，我们就不会丢面子。反而会丢掉包袱，得到更多的爱和快乐。
沟通是连接心灵的桥梁，是交流信息的渠道。在学*生活中，常常会出现一些我不懂的题，而爸爸妈妈又不能帮助我，我只能去找老师。老师培育祖国花朵的辛勤园丁，当然，他比我们更懂得“养花”的秘诀。
所以我毫不犹豫的选择了老师。与老师一起学*沟通，我感到心情非常愉快，因为遇到百年一见的难题，老师就会想我人生道路的指挥灯一样，帮我指明前进的方向。与老师一起沟通学*，也可以学得开心，兴趣更浓。与老师沟通，能让我学到更多的知识，开阔视野，消除疑惑。成绩更高！在我家，你常常会看到一对父女在长谈，那就是我和爸爸。爸爸虽然知识不是非常丰富，但他却能帮我解决问题，带领我走向成功的路途。
通常，我在学校的情况会跟爸爸聊一聊。爸爸也会向我倾吐他的心事。通过对爸爸的交流，我明白了许多大道理，心胸也越来越宽广了。我和爸爸的交流使我脱离了幼稚无知的`乐园，来到了一个成熟懂事的世界。也是我懂得了许多做人的道理。这种长大不仅是身体的长大，更是思想的长大，能力的提升，视野的开阔。沟通，是成长中的重要步骤，是人与人之间心灵的桥梁。如果没有心灵的桥梁，你将会成为一个孤独的人。我们应该在社会中学会与他人沟通谈心。
学*他人的长处，补缺自己的短处，这样你就可以在考场上出类拔萃，在生活中战胜困难，成为群星中最耀眼的那一颗。在沟通中成长吧，成长需要沟通！
沟通是架在人们心灵间的桥梁,只有自己清除心灵的封锁线,才能让爱在沟通的桥梁中穿行.
我们的心情有时候会很糟,使自己的心城阴雨蒙蒙,无意中封锁这架调节器似的桥使自己陷入孤立.打开心灵之窗吧!不要让孤独的帘子遮住了爱的'阳光,让自己的心房重新找回以往的活力.
沟通是无需任何代价与付出的工程,它让我们走出成长的迷茫,走出生活的陷阱,走*那片美丽的森林——真情.是的,献出自己的一点爱,你会惊奇的发现自己收获了整片爱的海洋.
沟通存在于每一个角落.
青少年和父母需要沟通,打破因年龄而产生的代沟,让父母的爱与关怀驾着沟通的小船,驶进孩子的心河,让孩子的快乐与忧愁插上沟通的翅膀,飞进父母的心房.
国家与国家之间需要沟通,去掀开国与国之间的屏障,让合作与*等顺着沟通的微风飞遍世界每一个角落,敞开自己的大门欢迎远方朋友的到来,让战争与痛苦消逝在黄昏之中,让和*的阳光普照大地.
人与自然需要沟通,不要让自然用法则去惩罚人类的无知,用沟通是世界更美好,使人与自然和谐相处.
沟通的桥梁中不会有交通法规,不会有红灯绿灯,只要有爱心,任何的快乐,幸福,美好都可以得到分享,任何的悲伤失意无奈都可以得到分担. 我们需要沟通.
生活中处处需要沟通，而生存的首要条件就是沟通。
与亲人，我们要和谐相处。如果亲人与自己没有办法沟通，那们你们之间的感情一定很*淡。所以学会沟通，会让你们有更多的收获，而且在你的学*上或事业上会有很大的帮助。
在我们身边有很多人，我们需要与他们沟通。如果你们在一件小事上互相认识了，不管是好事还是坏事，都不能让他们成为你的敌人，要以最好的办法让他成为你的朋友，俗话说的好“多一个朋友就多一条路”，“化解敌人最好的`方法是把他变为朋友”，所以交朋友并不是坏事，但是交朋友也要慎重，要“交益友，不要交损友”要学会“择其善者而从之，其不善者而改之”。这样，我们才能不断地完善自己。
那么交好的朋友我们也需要有一些技巧：首先不要不好意思说话，让他先了解你，尽量开朗点，一般人都喜欢爱说话的，其次在交朋友时，要与你的朋友真诚相待，把自己最好的一面展示给你的朋友，让他感觉你非常亲切，很可靠，再次如果与朋友发生了矛盾、争执，不要远离他，此时更需要与他沟通。如果是你的错，要去道歉；如果是他的错，要跟他说出你内心的感受。如果你不好意思说的话，可以用书信的形式，给他写一封信或一张小纸条，表达你的意愿，我相信他一定回接受的！
“沟通”这个极其普通的字眼，她的意义却非同凡响，她是连接你、我、他的一座桥梁，让世界进行无忧无虑沟通。
在作文课上，我看了一幅图，上面是一座桥，把**边牵连起来，桥下面是河水……而图的下面配了这样一句话：桥有连接**的功能，可以由此联想并升华为心灵之桥，奉献之桥……
哎呀!烦不烦啊!为什么是沟通，沟通又解决不了问题。
虽然在生活中，妈妈一直跟我说：“沟通，沟通，喊你来把学校头发生嘞事回来以后给我沟通，给我说，你嘞，倒好，回来以后我说你，你就说不得。问你杨书乐、孙征浩欺负你不得，你还说不得。虽然问哦其他同学，确实不得，可是你也不能啊样，都说不得嘛。”
我左耳进右耳出地回答道：“是咯嘛，是咯嘛，下次我一定改，一定改哈!”
可是我依然和原来一样，都只说不改。
的`确，沟通虽然对有些人没用，可对那些讲道理的人却很有用。
上次，我被杨书乐欺负，妈打电话给杨书乐爸，而他爸用不温不火的语气说了一堆话。
第二天，杨书乐告诉我，说他昨天晚上差点被他爸爸骂哭，还说：“这是我三年以来第一次流眼泪嘞。”
我想说，你把牛都吹到天上了，就你，会被你爸爸骂哭?以你爸爸昨天晚上的语气，他会骂你?哼!对这种不讲道理的人不需要去跟他沟通。
这个星期的作文，哎呀，翻开书一看，找自己的爸爸妈妈沟通一下，说一说自己童年的趣事。哎呀，我不，不要，我不要沟通!转念一想，哎，没办法，认命吧!
上帝赐给了我们声音，让我们会说话。如果，你没有一个希望发声的嘴巴，就让那些聋哑孩子来代替你的嘴巴，替你说话吧!
有一些人的理解能力可能就只有这个程度了，就像这个有的人跟他把话都说尽了，告诉你这个不这么做，你会有各种各样的危害，他最后想自己承担，那就是只能说他自己随便了。
那天就有一个人，好像是我已经忘了他，大概就是他，如果什么处理都不做，他家孩子会变得很丑，但是他却没有什么意见。我就很不理解，一般都是孩子好看还来不及呢，但是他好像就对外表这个事一点也不在意，还说什么在学校里孩子们不会笑话他的这种事，你家孩子被笑话了，他也不一定回来跟你说。
那个家长跟他说了半天也不知道，他连自己的父母都搞不定，就是那实在说不通也没办法让他搬出去，他又不肯搬出去。也不是，他是这个反正就是大家住一起嘛，这也算不上认识，反正要么他搬出去，要么他让他父母搬出去，这个总得有一方搬出去吧肯定也就是一个小两口，带着孩子自己自己另外找个地方住呗，要不还能有啥办法他这个观念。
不是公婆，那是他自己父母。就是你这个因为公公婆婆的话，那是别人的`父母，肯定是关系上没有那么亲，但是自己家人都说不清，那也没有啥办法。有很多人就是没有常识，没有科学素养，讲也讲不通的。实在不行也可以去心理咨询师那里沟通，也可以让孩子不要和长辈一起住的。因为一个人即使三观不正也绝大多数不能自己恢复。
随着社会经济的飞速发展，时代也在不断的进步。沟通，已成为人与人之间互相交流，互相促进，互相发展的桥梁。不管是在什么地方都需要沟通。
因此，学会沟通十分重要。
就算你是一个知识渊博的人，如果不会沟通，就相当于英雄无用武之地。社会也不会承认你的才能，最终人才也会变成“木材”，白白浪费掉。
当今社会，专业沟通人才已成为一大需求。电视里曾报道过，“从专业院校培养出的各种优秀人才是接连不断，有部分大学生面临着就业难的问题，其主要原因是不能良好的沟通，以至人才流失，大材小用。所以，有些地区就开始发展沟通教育，为了落实这次行动，开设了很多专业院校，以及专业兴趣班。”可见，在社会上，沟通的知识运用广泛。
专业人才是越来越多，器材也是数不胜数。
网络，是建立新兴沟通之桥的一大工具，人与人之间的`交往，知识的传播，都离不开层出不穷的网络*台。只需在键盘上敲打几下，移动一下鼠标，就能实现网络沟通的具体化，专业化，真实化和虚拟化。
而已经普及全球的电话，则是一种语言远程沟通的工具，它虽然只能语言表达，但与网络相比之下，它更具有真实性。
此外，还有很多便于沟通的工具，恕不详谈。
学会沟通，认识沟通，我相信，它不但会方便你，还会为你架起一座通往美好明天的桥梁。
人与人的交往在于“源源不断”的沟通，从题目可看出沟通是一座桥，是一座架于你、我、他之间的交际之桥。
随着社会经济的飞速发展，时代也在不断的进步。沟通，已成为人与人之间互相交流，互相促进，互相发展的桥梁。不管是在什么地方都需要沟通。
因此，学会沟通尤其重要。
就算你是一个知识渊博的人，如果不会沟通，就相当于拿着子弹的.人无枪。社会上也不会有你的用武之地，最终人才也会变成“木材”，白白浪费掉。
当今社会，专业沟通人才以成为一大需求。电视里曾报道过，“从专业院校涌出的各种优秀人才是接连不段，有部分大学生都面临就业难的问题，其主要原因是不能良好的沟通，以至人才流失，大材小用。所以，有些地区就开始发展沟通教育，为了落实这次行动，开设了很多专业院校，以及专业兴趣班。”可见，在社会上，沟通的知识运用广泛。
——矛盾的人作文(精选5篇)
上次提到和我的同桌闹了矛盾，他这次确实认为自己错了，因此，他向我们倒了歉，我想自己有时也不是很好，毕竟，一个巴掌拍不想啊，是不是也应该检讨检讨自己呢？
事情的起因是这样的，在值周时，我的同桌有些讨厌，不好好值周，到处乱跑，我的组员一起拿果子杂他，他偏偏来打我，说是我指使的，我真的很晕额，有没有搞错啊？我也没有惹他呀。之后又把我最好的女同学弄的十分狼狈，受不了他，我和全组人都不理他，他却丝毫没有悔改之意，在我们的冷战下，几天以后，他发现自己确实很过分，才向我们道歉，虽然有些不太正经，但还算诚恳，并且在他的日记里也提到了自己不好，他还拿给我看哩。
其实想想，只为意见小事，就一个星期不说话，把我们六年的友谊抛之脑后，的确非常不值得，同学之间，闹点小矛盾也很正常，更何况他最后也道歉了呀！各退一步，不就可以了嘛，干嘛那么较真，六年的友谊又怎么会轻易流逝？记得雪飘曾经在博客里写过，她与同学之间的烦恼，她也曾经被孤立过啊，虽然这次我不是被孤立的一方，但我理解她当时的心情，友谊怎么能说没有就没了呢？
我想，重要的只有一个词，那就是——理解万岁。
在我的生活中，有这么一个人，他和我如影随形，甚至进出同一个房间，不管我身在何处，他总是十分神奇地出现在我身旁。
他是个话不多的人，除了周一到周五在校的时候会穿校服，其余时间都是一袭黑衣。他喜欢把自己套在衣服里，但又喜欢松松垮垮的衣服。他几乎不出门，即使是出门，也一定有很大的目的性或不可抗力。他喜欢独处一室，并不总挑起话题。说到这里，你可能以为这是个抑郁系的内向少年。
然而，事实残酷到让人发寒。听一些人说：“第一次见他的时候，我还以为他是个成熟稳重的人，第二次见，就有些风趣，第三次，他就成了个活跃的人，第四天次，算了，没法说，很神奇。”
他喜欢画画，尤其是水墨丹青。而花鸟画，更是他的专精。但是，但是！有一天，他的一个小弟弟问他：“哥，你画画好厉害啊，你的梦想是什么啊？”他压低了声音，故意用一种神秘而郑重的声线缓缓地说：“我的梦想啊……”他换了一副笑容，道：“黄漫是我的信仰啊。”哦，天呐，你还我那个文艺青年的人物设定啊！
他有时一个人待的时候，会写一些小短篇之类的。这曾经在很长一段时间内，让我对他有一丝丝的敬意。直到有一天我看到他“吃吃娇笑”地冒充一个女生给一个男生写情书，写情书！情书！他再一次刷新了我对他的认知。
他和我同年同月同日生，但比较早熟，在别人在看一些比如《海贼王》《龙珠超》之类的时候，他却在看《庄子》《道德经》《左传》之类。我曾以为他很稳重，直到我看到他抱着本拼音版的《睡前好故事》看得津津有味，好像要把童年没听够的故事全过一遍时，我在想，这世界上怎么能有这么诡异的人？
这就是他，一个矛盾的人！
他是一个*凡的人，*凡的不能再*凡了，头发短而干燥，脸就像一张风干了的橘皮暗黄而布满皱纹，一笑起来，两排参差不齐的黄芽便开始张开他就是我的奶奶，他是一个矛盾的人。 奶奶，你看到我的那条灰色围巾了吗?挺长的那条我又找不到了。
奶奶说自己的东西不好收拾，我怎么知道你的那条围巾在哪里?真是的，自己找吧。尽管他嘴上这样说着，却还是会起身来到衣柜前忙活一阵子，我便能收到刚才想要的那条围巾和一个整洁的衣柜了，奶奶总是这样矛盾，嘴上说着不身体却十分诚实。
“哎呀，赶紧起床啦，8:00啦。”“才8:00，今天是星期六啊”哎呀，不对，星期六还要补课呢，吓得我一激灵掀开被子跳下床三下武侠，穿好衣服临*出门时再看看手表，好家伙，7:45啦，奶奶笑着看错了看错了，他是眼神真的不好，可有一次我翻相册时却发现奶奶的眼睛挺尖锐的，在各种场合中的合照，他总是一眼能找到我，连我自己都要仔细辨认一会儿，他却能一下子发现你说他的眼睛不尖锐吗?
奶奶的眼睛也十分矛盾，时而好使时而不好使。 奶奶的记性也是如此，炒完菜总是忘记关火，需要爷爷提醒出门不带手机需要爷爷提醒，有时候手里拿着盆却不知道要去洗菜还是摘菜。这样的他却能够兴致勃勃地与人交谈4个月，6个月到两岁的去世，长大念书拿过的奖等等，有些东西我连自己都忘得一干二净，他却能讲得头头是道。 奶奶是一个粗线条的人，要是不知道挥霍了多少次手机也不知道摔了多少个，可就是这样一个粗糙的人，早餐中总会有给我一个光滑的鸡蛋，我的杯子里总是会倒上温度适宜的开水，冬天总能提醒我涂唇膏等等等等，这些细致入微的事情，他都能一一照顾到。
我总在想奶奶是如何记住这些事情的呢，后来我渐渐明白这些鸡毛蒜皮的事，这些细微的事情，包括这个*凡矛盾的她都是对我的关爱呀，浓烈的纯纯的爱呀。
最*我的心情的确十分矛盾呀。不过准确来说，我的心情应该还说好的吧。周四的时候，我们考的数学卷子成绩出来了。我考了94分！！班级第三名，不过我觉得已经很棒了。并不是我就甘心自己有这样的成就，而是因为我以前真的是一个数学渣滓，如今竟然能考到九十多分是以前的我从未想过的。
还记得印象中的我真的是个数学特别差的人，有一次甚至考到了班级*均分的后面，那时候我才幡然醒悟，初一上学期就想着要好好学，然后变成了七十几分，内心还是特别不舒服的，因为小学的自己考九十多分也是信手拈来的事情了。到初一下学期，我似乎学了几何之后一下子就开了窍了一般，成绩突然从78分一直上不了八十分的水*开始猛蹿，一下子就到了88分这样，可是上90分还是成为了我的一个瓶颈。
没错，这次我真的突破了自己的瓶颈，考了九十多分，真是没有比这个更让我开心的事情了。可是，心情又有些矛盾，因为我不想止步于此，我还想去更高的地方攀爬一下。要相信自己嘛，心情有些矛盾，刚突破了瓶颈，就要继续努力下去了吗？毫无疑问，我也怕苦我也怕累啊，不过我想只要能看我能让我开心的美满的结果，我再苦再累有什么怕的呢？只要看得到自己未来的方向，能得到老师父母的赞扬，这个世界便是如此美好了不是吗？
心情有些矛盾，不过努力不是偶尔，一定要是*常才可以。一定要每天每时每刻都在努力才可以，别辜负了自己想要的生活，想要一些东西，就只能靠自己的双手去争取，去获得啊！
生活中充满了矛盾，但面对矛盾，我们一要辨明方向，二要知晓利害，三要分清是非。面对生活中的种种矛盾，我们要以自信的心态去勇敢面对，要以持恒的意志去努力破解，要以宽容的度量去点滴消融。直面生活中的矛盾，需要用勇气坚定自己前行的方向；直面生活中的矛盾，需要用坚强守卫自己不灭的梦想；直面生活中的矛盾，需要用毅力铸造自己人生的成功。
面对生活中的种种矛盾，请不要畏惧退缩，搪塞推脱，而应抱之以乐观与自信；面对生活中的种种矛盾，请不要狂暴急躁，感情用事，而应抱之以理智与坦然；面对生活中的种种矛盾，请不要唯我是尊，偏执自私，而应抱之以感恩与博爱。面对**厚禄与为民**的矛盾，我选择“为民**”；面对屈从厄运与艰难抗争的矛盾，我选择“艰难抗争”；面对个人生死与国家大义的矛盾，我选择“国家大义”。面对与父母的矛盾，我们要学会交流与沟通；面对与朋友的矛盾，我们要学会信任与宽容；面对与社会的矛盾，我们要学会融合与正气。
矛盾就如同生活中的一把把枷锁，锁住了我们的沟通，锁住了我们的信任，锁住了我们心扉。面对这一把把枷锁，我们要用理性、用责任、用爱心砸破这矛盾的枷锁。放下冷漠，用宽容之心去面对矛盾；放下卑劣，用感恩之心去面对矛盾；放下失意，用从容之心去面对矛盾。人生如路，矛盾就是路上的坑洼和荆棘，“如影随形”，这就需要我们学会乐观与坚定；人生如河，矛盾就是河中的暗流与礁石，“随波逐流”，这就需要我们学会自信与机智；人生如山，矛盾就是山间的峭壁与雾瘴，“漫山遍野”，这就需要我们学会理智和从容。
生活中充满了矛盾，取与舍，得与失，义与利，爱与恨，等等。面对诸如此类的矛盾，我们要坚持不懈，用信念敲破矛盾的坚冰，无私奉献，用爱心驱散矛盾的阴霾；恪尽职守，用责任消散矛盾的迷雾。
